Well i've recently started dating a new chick after my last open relationship didnt work, but this time im dating the 'popular' chick at school final year, I'm fairly new to the school and all and she is mates with pretty much everyone easily one of the best looking girls at the school.

My question is she wants to take it slow, and at the same time she doesn't, i just tell her lets take it slow with hints of taking it faster and it amps up sexual conversations between us on phone/text what should i do to get it just going faster?

also, not the best at endurance cant last very long in bed, but very fit so round 2 + is no problem this is the first girl ive acctually given a fuck about how long i last seeing as theres so much pressure to perform well because dont need a bad name going around school so anyone got any tips on that part ?

a lot of girls say they are cool with taking it slow, a lot of girls say they are cool with open relationships...

when it all comes down, they only have one speed: FEMALE (and all of its associated neuroses)

good luck. i know this isn't exactly what you were looking for, but it's a relevant point to consider.