First Day with HB

So friends of mine invited me to dinner, I was late but when I got there I knew everyone except one girl who was HB8, one of my m8 Mike, was talking to her and I saw he was interested so I exclude myself from the hunt , she tried several times to talk to me but I was always playing a bit distant so Mike would have the time to close the deal. I noticed there was some kino but she was the one doing it grabbing his hand and shit, he was looking more like her dog and looking a bit desperate, At that point I told him back off man, because the girl was becoming a bit bored and going to another friend, Eddy (saying omg this guy is stalking save me) What she didnt knew that he is in fact gay, but he is really confident around women and he tries his best to not appear gay so he danced with her talk to her and at the end he told me she was probably interested me. And I thought the oposite, because my all the girls go for my gay friend.

After that night she sarts sending txts to my gayfriend like she is interested in him but ofcourse she has no chance with him After three days see put on my facebook "Im seeing you", I found that kind weird because I didnt talk to her much or even create rapport, was always bit cold and distant at that night because of Mike I and also didnt respond to her on facebook , didnt even knew what that meant


Day two with HB

Again she put on my facebook if I was going to dinner with them(she knew my gayfriend wasnt coming), and i saw an effort of our mutual female friend to hook ups before the dinner so we could walk there and meet the others. She was very talkative and shit. Giving me alot of shit tests and being flirty showing pictures of her nice. When we were having dinner I had to excuse myself because of one my female friends called me with problems and I tried to calm her down so I was out half hour and they were waiting for me. In the meanwhile my gayfriend comes with another group.

When we were waiting for our orders the HB tells me lets grab a smoke Carlos, I denied her since I was having a conversation with a girl.(did I do well??). I was bit confused because she tried to isolate me when she could have isolate all the other ppl but I thought I couldnt do what she wanted

When we left we were a bit drunk and me and here we soon got isolated in front of the restaurant, she started flirty heavy with her grabbing my hand like we were lovers, laughing at my jokes, maintaining eye contact and trying to bring our face closers,if it was any other girl I would kiss her but i think she is player and my gayfriend was there , remembering she already done that to a friend she wasnt so direct with him but she kept him for attention and then cast away like he was hobo. After frustated actions on her part she begin telling me are you nervous you must be gay you cant maintain eye contact, or even have the guts, I was so unreactive that probably bust her balls out. We agreed to see each other at a bar since guys took the subway and girls the car.

When I got there we were 5 guys to 3 girls. At that point the HB was pissed even a friend of mine came to me and said she was really frustated, I ignored the best hi could she wasnt making any effort. And when a Another HB friend passed I went and left the group. Two hours later I cameback and the girls where already gone. WHen I talked to a friend of mine he told me that they were bit bored andt he HB sit down the all time while i wasnt there and they even coment that " Carlos was out to find a HB friend"

So I will probably see her tomorrow at a party I would love to escalate and isolate, but Im bit afraid that she is attention whore or I was so cold that she lost her interest. How to flip side this girl, and make her chase me? Should I now give the attention?