Ok so I haven't been able to find anything huge on this topic.

I've had a few opportunitys with having a fuck buddy and i haven't been able to close the deal.

So... Does anyone have any strategies or tips on turning girls, be they friends or potential hook-ups into fuck buddys?

Observation:
Fuck buddy relationships I have seen appear to be mostly ex gf/bf's fucking each other.

Cheers

I gotta be a buzzkill and throw a few of the warnings about FWB relationships.

1. It is not going to make anyone fall in love with you, or vice versa. Often these situations come about when one person has some feelings for the other, and think that this can be a good first step to a relationship. So if you do get to the point where it happens, make sure everybody’s on the same page.
2. Ex gfs are common cases, true, but usually its ruined because while you keep things casual you start to think getting back together is a good idea. It’s easy to forget the bad stuff when you’re only having some fun.
3. Discretion is key. ASD is always present, so if you start telling all your buddies about this great deal you have going with a girl, it’ll crash the moment she hears about it. Gossip sucks, not gonna lie.

Now with that done, it’s actually not that tough to do. All you need is the ability to F-close. I’ve had a couple of these, and all it really took was one F-close. It’s no different than just going through the basics that are brought up time after time in this forum. Once you’ve slept with the girl, it gets a lot easier IMO because there are 3 directions things can go: she wants a relationship, she wants nothing more to do with you, or she could see herself doing it again without any strings attached. If she keeps hanging out without you ever showing legitimate romantic interest, you go for the second close. After 2, it pretty much goes without saying that you two are FWBs.

Occasionally, you actually meet a girl who is willing to talk about this without trying to sound innocent and unaware of the concept of casual sex. It’s a pain in the ass that we all don’t get more of those opportunities, but then you can literally just decide then and there what the relationship between the two of you is and will be. When you do meet one of those girls, though, it’s kind of awesome.

This is very true, be wary of girls trying to trap you with their vagina, and never go bareback, even if they say it's 'okay', you have got to be wary of their 'logic'.

Personal advice is - never call them or ask them to fuck, has to be them doing it or a last resort or just happen to bump into them, why? because having a few girls you can bang on tap makes you complacent and lazy, many occasion ive gone out and not even bothered as I know I can hook up with someone and had to check myself.

Just be up front....while sexually escalating make sure you throw out there, "I just want to make sure that you know I am not looking for a relationship...etc" If she stops it, then you avoided some drama already..if you do it and she still try's to pull the relationship card, you have your out..."Look, we talked about this already...I was clear with you."

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