I recently broke up from my girlfriend. We've been dating for 8 months. I was grown in a sheltered environment and surrounded with religion, so I've never had many girlfriends before...i think all of my girlfriends were the one that I get through "luck" not "skills".

Its been hard on me, this past few weeks. I made the decision to break up because my uncomfortableness with her grew to the point where I can't stand it. I've also been a chronic "Oneitis" for years and I want to cure it.

I've taken the first step by arranging 3 dates this week to avoid oneitis. This week's thursday is my 2nd date with a girl. I was suppose to be excited, but today I realized how low my skills have fallen. I'm scared that I will fail and return to being a Oneitis AFC again.

Please give me some help or advices.