Ok i want to get my first girlfriend im old enough to have sex in my country legally and everything so you dont need to tone down any of your advice. Im not an attractive guy, i hate my looks, never had a girl like me before. My history with women is me always being very shy, Quiet,nice and friendly.. can anyone give me advice on getting a first girlfriend? thanks and remember im not attractive, my mirror im ok looking, photograph is like a total different person a ugly big nose freak... anyway i hope you guys can help me give my life some happiness by having a girlfriend in my life. thank you.

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At least do a little research, there's a lot of PUA material online and Youtube.
I am in the same boat as you, I want a girlfriend too.

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Step 1 - Go to Gym

Step 2 - Find a Hobbie, that you can interact with other ppl.

Step 3 - Buy Clothes go see how guys are dressing now. tons of mens magazine.

Step 4- Take that stupid ideia of being not atractive it doesnt make sense girls dont look to that. THEY WANT A MAN WHO IS CONFIDENT NORMALY UGLY GUYS DONT HAVE THAT CONFIDENCE SO THEY AUTOMATICLY EXCLUDE THEMSELF OF THE HUNT ever seen PUA show there are some guys who I say is not atractted but they are pulling numbers. Oh do you remember Billy Bob thornton with Angelina jolie?Whoa he is a sight to beholD lol.

Step 5- I would watch the routines category in this forum, you can learn alot.

Step 6- I would try and find a method that is memorize lines

Step 7- Dont give a crap for what other thinks, I would look for NLPS to boost your CONFIDENCE THAT WOULD HELP.

Step 8 Go to Clubs and try to have fun.

i am also young and dude if there is one thing your doing wrong its by saying your ugly. You should try and have more self esteem because not only will that help with girls but it will help you mentally because you cant just beat yourself down like that. Even though looks can definitely help, conversation skills and personality are way more important

Energy16, you have a perfect opportunity to correct yourself before that shit messes up your programming for good.

Trust me, I fell in to the same emotional pattern and retreated to my room reading books and playing videogames, hating the world because I couldnt attract the opposite sex.

It took years to realise, that with a normal haircut, shaven face, new clothes helps your confidence go a long way. The idea, is having confidence in yourself, then others will have confidence in you.

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