When men usually talk to women, they either constantly tease them, or they do the opposite and constantly compliment them. These two techniques I have just described Do Not work, as you can probably tell from experience.
So what do you do ?
Well its simple really, go 50:50, this is called "the push/pull" technique, half compliment and half teasing.
This technique shows that you are "Cocky/Funny".
Cocky funny is half of the Nice Guy and half of the Bad boy; women are always complaining about going out with the Bad Boys and only talk about getting with a Nice guy. But the fact is they want both, they want someone who acts like a Bad Boy but also displays the qualities of a Nice Guy.
Problems with being Only One:
Mr Nice Guy- usually the girl won't become attracted to you (because it shows you are too clingy)
Bad Boy - The girl may start to hate you even if she was at the start attracted to you
Bad Boy- The relationship won't last long (she's usually the one to break up with you(never mind what the movies say))
Mr Nice Guy - If looking for girls in clubs, you’ll start to act like everyone else and become too generic.
So by being both this then makes you the most desirable man in the Club (Or even the World !!!)
Examples of Cocky/Funny would be:
You: " Hey it's your lucky night tonight"
Her: "Why ?"
You: "Because your going out with me tonight... but not touching, OK? .... I'm the one that does all the touching"
This may sound too Cocky for some of you guys but believe me it works.
Remember to slow down your speech pattern when speaking, rather that saying it really fast. Because you can't be Cocky/Funny when acting under-confident, if you show no confidence you will act only one of the two traits.
I hope you are trying this out
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