Hi,

I'm looking for a website, forum, or a book where I can find some advice on how to flirt with women, how to talk and how to warm up to women at night clubs and how to talk to women in general in a fun, light hearted way. The only book I read and liked was Intimate Connections by Dr Burns. I"m practicing flirting by giving women compliments when I go to social dances and most of them like it and many flirt back. I don't like negging or using routines or any "material" I'm looking for simple, non-PUA advice.

I am a talented dancer, but I feel uncomfortable talking to women in night clubs or inviting myself to dance with them. I have a lot of pessimistic thinking - mind readnig them, that they probably don't like me. The truth is women always compiment me on my dancing and my friends say I get a lot of eyes, but I'm just so unsure of myself. I know bar and night club game involves a lot of rejections, but every rejection hurts!

Allright before you judge the game, read "the game". It will give you a whole new look on things.

Game isn't about routines, it's about how to tell her you are awesome. It's about making her want you. If you can't make it, fake it till you do, then canned openers/negs are in place. But once you'll get the hang out of that, it will all go natrual and spontanious.

I usually make up negs on the spot, when telling her DHV stories I tell her stuff I did, not stuff that Mystery or other PUA's did. But the principle stays the same. You make yourself interesting to her, and you remove her bitch-shield. It's merely opening her up to you, making sure she doesn't see you as any other pathetic guy behaving like a slave to her.

Game can be as natural as grass, bees and daisies.

Don't want any of this? Go watch Disney movies and let them tell what love and dating is all about. Being a hero, buying her flowers, going on an Italian dinner, being nice all the time and rescuing her from some bad guy. That approach will surely get you the girl you desire.

Seriously, give it a shot. Read the game and try some stuff. But personalize it till you feel comfortable.

Hope that helps!

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