a few question regarding sex, that you wanted to become regular, for your consideration.

1. if you went to her house at night, would you sleep over to prove you werent using her or would that come off as needy? I'm thinking leave at the 1st opportunity in the morning to have the best of both/keep her guessing?

2. again, would you text or call the next morning to make her not feel like you used her, or keep her guessing/chasing? she may reject you in her mind if she thinks you've used her?

3. what words, if any, would you use to describe the night/time/sex. would you perhaps not even mention the sex, like it wasnt a big deal, or would you make her feel good and want to do it again?

one more note. i think i messed things up with the last girl i was really interesting in fucking regularly by trying to show her some respect by taking her on a date, when i knew she was happy enough just fucking me. she said she really enjoyed the date, and i believe it went well, but she's never asked to see me since and we've only fucked once on a fluke meeting. the date was over a month ago. before that we had been fucking about twice a week.

this is something that requires good calibration skills. i would say to play it safe on the first night. if you just met this person; fuck and leave, dont call in the morning, and compliment the sex right after u orgasm but no more then that. she will give you obvious signs if she wants you to stay if you dont get them, pull up your pants take your shirt off the ceiling fan, stop at her fridge on the way out and steal the beer and your breakfast, piss in the flower pot outside her house and leave.

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so when should i re-initiated contact if i want to fuck again, and when i do should i just make normal conversation ignoring the sex, and should i ask to meet again or pretend i'm not bothered?

you should re-initiate contact with the next female you see. If you followed my last bit of advice you should have that "acquired" case of beer and should be plowing through them by the time you meet this new girl. being drunk you will probably talk about sex and not ignore the subject. and if you have to "pretend to not be bothered" you are not drinking enough so drink until you truly dont care.

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