Hey everyone, so I have been a member here for a while, but havn't really been that active. However, I am curious to get some of your expert advise on improving my game.

Currently in the comfort phase with a hb 7-8... k-closed, kinda weak, but managed to do so. I really like this chick, probably why I am being kinda nervous around her, and want to take it to the next level. Havn't really done any "gaming" in the sense, just been an AFC and not playing any games. I have some ideas on how I can take it to the next step, but just wanted to see what yall recommend.

I can definitely tell she is really into me.. but do I play into her attraction and flatter her, or do I play hard to get? Hard to get in the sense of push-pull... and what not?!? Also, she broke up with a boyfriend of several years about 2 months ago.. and I don't know if I should try and take it slow, or go in for the "kill" if ya kno what I mean... lol but for real, any advise you guys have would be greatly appreciated.

thanks

Well I was a big time AFC when the following experience happened to me:

When I was in the comfort phase with a girl, i played hard to get and the attraction cooled down. Eventually she just moved one cuz i wasn't showing enough interest. That was something i permanently noted.

Sometimes during the comfort phase, I see guys that come on too strong and the girls either lose attraction or worse, just end up playing them cuz they know they've got the guy in the bag.

My advice is continue building rapport by finding evolving your common interests and at the same time DHV. If you can flip the "Pre-selection" switch, you can even play up some jealousy.

want to be the rebound or want to be in a LTR?
that's really what you should ask yourself first, anyway, if your kiss-close was kinda weak i'd say built some attraction and/or sexual tension, that would be a good start, if you keep building a lot of comfort without the attraction you're going to end in a four word zone that you definitely don't want to be in.

but the question remains rebound or LTR?

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