I`m new here and a friend recommended I post this so that you pros can diffuse it.

There is this girl that I like. She is a 21 I`m almost 20. We go to school together but starting next semester (a few days) we won`t have the same class. She has or had a boyfriend, I`m not entirely sure. She claims that she;s moving out in a few weeks. They still live together but I think they are broken up and she just wants to be friends with him. I want to be more than friends. She is originally from another city and might move back there.

We have known each other for a few months and I have become much more emotionally involved than physically involved with her. We have only seen each other outside of class a few times.

Talking to her for the most part is easy, I like her. I haven`t used many PUA techniques with her at all and I am 50,50 on whether I am friend-zoned. What I do know is that she did at one point like another guy and told him that. He rejected her crudely.

Also let me stress one thing this isn`t just about getting laid (that is a factor), but I like her as a person. She isn`t what you would describe as normal. She wears darkish clothes and has some...other habits.

I am for the most part confident but I still get some anxiety over her and it might show subliminally Im not sure but...

Last time I seen her I pretty much did a faceplant after consuming too much liquor... At times she seems to show interest, but doubts take hold.

The question really is should I just tell her straight up the way that I feel? I feel time-pressured because of the whole moving thing. I dont much feel like being in the friend zone if she doesn`t feel the same than i will move on.

Thanks for any responses.

so you've got one-itis for a girl you've never even kissed or fucked who may or may not be in a relationship with a guy whom she soon plans to break up with and you want to sign up for that aftermath, not to get a piece of ass, but because you *heart* her?

I used to be like you, uhmming and ahhing over whether or not this girl saw me as more than a friend or not, waiting for a "sure sign" that often won't come.

You need to use kino from the very beginning, and escalate, if you want to know for sure then try to kiss her, you'll feel a lot better for doing it even if you get rejected.

NEVER TELL a girl you havent done anything with yet "how you feel". Instead show them how you feel by spending time with her and escalating.

damn you are so straight up!!! i totally agree

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