I was supposed to meet a girl tonight. I talked to her a few hours before to let her know when I'd be there, and then she tells me she got called into work. I don't respond to her text, and after a few minutes she sends me another one saying we should hang out next week. I respond with a VERY brief message mentioning the day we'll hang out and she responds positively.

What's my next move here? The girl texts me more often than I text her and even gave me her home address and always responds fast to me when I send her a message or call. We've met before in person and she seemed very into me as well. It doesn't really seem like a flake, but I'm not really sure how to approach it. Do I just do a freeze-out? And when I do respond, what should I mention?

probably bullshit unless she has a job where shes on-call.

It's at a bar. And since it's a Friday, it does seem legit.

Also, I really need to know how to react rather than the why of it.

Good news. The freeze-out worked and now she's texting me a lot.

Haha, if it was a legit cancel and not BS, I'm sure she'd be texting you a lot regardless of whether you did a freeze out. Btw, be careful with those, overusing freeze outs can be seen as someone throwing a temper tantrum when they dont get their way. (not saying thats what you did, but ive seen it happen enough times haha)

Gotcha. Yeah, I'm pretty sure it really WAS a legit cancel now. I think I was being too paranoid before.

just relax bro