Heres the situation, I've been wheeling this girl for a little bit now she is into me and all I know because ive hooked up with her in the past but here is the thing she is a player also and I know the only reason I have her strung along still is from DHVing and reverse psychology making her feel she is chasing me and i know this has thrown off her game a bit. So all good here but my issue is going to be getting her alone, i see her at my gym alot and kino/flirt but i know if i ask her out it will be game over and to her she will have won the game. Any suggestions on how to deal with girls that play games with guys?

Im not a huge expert in game, (im fairly new to it too my friend), but before finding game a technique I would use to disarm the girl would be to invite her out,but I would bring a friend of mine and all 3 of us would hangout. Then about halfway through the fun my friend would have to leave for some reason or get involved with somethin else and i'd be isolated with my girl. Then if your game is good you can escalate and close from there.

Just my 2cents

invite her to hang out wit u and ur friends
show more attention to another girl that u may be friends with
make a lot of kino with her
then the hot playful girl will start clingying to u
this is where the push and pull is very delicate
dont push too much or shell get over u
the right amount will make her oppsess over u