I been talking to this girl for about a month we've only hungout once im in collge and she's still in highschool we dont have any common friends so its hard to meet her in a group setting. But anyway I ask her to do stuff and she says she wants to but she never will confirm a date. So im getting tired of asking her to do stuff but she says she's not blowing me off that she has just had other plans. I text her lastnight and she didnt text back its the first time she has not text me back. What to you guys think she's younger than me I think she may be nervous? But I was planning on calling her thursday but i wasnt gonna ask her out just try to talk to her. Opinions plz???

Wait for her to come to you. Don't chase so hard go out and have fun and let her know you're doing that.

If you chase too much she'll run away. Take the game back in your hands.

how long should I wait then to call her or try to set up another date???

You have already offered and she hasn't taken the bate.

Wait until you bump into her and then say hey sorry I've not been in touch, been so busy but great to see you etc and gauge her reaction.

Some girls will stop making contact for no good reason, you have to accept it and move on, don't get oneitus on her.

The thing is its a situation where I will never bump into her we dont have any friends in common for that to happen so I have to make the effort to get her 1on1 with me or it want happen

I hate to say it, she either not interested or has other interests.

If you have to phone her again, give it three days and try to catch her at a boring midweek point when she's more likely to answer.

If she keeps knocking you back you have to take the hint. Some girls just will not tell you that they are not interested.

I flat out told her i wasnt gonna make contact with her untill she put in a effort..and she text me early the next morning saying she has just had other plans that she's not blowing me off..Idk y she would even make the effort if she wasnt interested?

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