Saturday night I hooked up with a friend of mine who I have been flirting with for a bit now. The entire night was awesome! SHe said i was the only guy who ever got off and that she is looking to explore her more sexual side. ( I am only the 2nd shes ever slept with.) The next morning we were talking about hanging out later that night.

So I leave get my shit done then txt her around 830ish asking her how her studying was going, and suggesting that she take a break. Anyway she said don’t you dare tempt me, to which I replied Me tempting…never.

Where I fucked it up though was because she said that the playtime(aka sex) would have to take a break, and I responded with a simple “that’s cool.” In my mind I thought I was conveying non-neediness but I realized this morning that it could have been taken as brash and pretty douchey. Bascailly saying I am only talking to you to have sex and if it doesn’t happen than whatever. Anyway she didn’t respond after that, so I left it there.

I feel like that was a test that I failed pretty hardcore. I am now at a complete loss as to what to do or even how to think.

Phone her and talk.

Why are people still gaming via text? It kills.