I hate it so much to the point where although i seriously love her personality, im considering dumping her.

Im her first boyfriend, and shes my first girlfriend.
Despite me only contacting her once every second day or so, she constantly acts like she doesnt need me or as if shes just not interested in the relationship.

She is though, because she got really excited when I told her "im coming over now"
She was like "Omg really!?"

So i dont effing get it. I HATE feeling like im the one chasing her, especially because ive had to reject girls at parties who have tried to kiss me.
Its like, here I am rejecting girls who WANT me, because Im stuck in a relationship with a girl who acts like she couldnt give a fuck.

She rarely calls first or texts first, and is too physically frigid to do anything sexually past make out and hand. WHich she sucks at btw. I told her "STop, i can do a better job myself"


I want the kind of relationship where my girlfriend texts me to show me shes thinking about me, or where SHE asks me out on dates, rather than me constantly engineering them. I feel really underappreciated, which annoys me because she doesnt know how easily I can find another girl. Yet she acts nearly as if shes all I got.




Dumping her would be the simple and most efficient thing to do for overall happiness. But since shes actually really clever and attractive on a deeper level, im willing to try work with her and see if I can turn this relationship into something more comfortable.
If THAT doesnt work, im going to break it off. But first, before then - what should I do?

Alright, Firstly we need to put her in her place. You are the alpha male!

When you make out with her and she shows some lmr show some IOD's for example backing off her, Pull away, look away etc

secondly you need her to think you are the prize. I would show or tell her some DHV.
Example she sees you around hanging out with girls which are your friends or text her that your going out to a club/bar with some friends which some are females.

Good luck

She treats you like she doesn't need you?

Dump her, it's not like you're going to marry this girl. If you're stuck in a shitty relationship.

Either try to fix it, and when that doesn't work. Get out of it.

If you want to fix it.

Show her how easily you can get another girl. You keep boasting about she doesn't know, yada yada. But what have you got to show for it?

If you want to cheat on her to show this, fine. But there are better ways like having a few girls chase you around while your gf is there. She'll get it

Have you already tried discussing this with her? IF not, this is your priority. Don't whine, just state in a matter of fact voice; I like it when you call me. or something in that sense: I like it when ~insert something you will appreciate~

Step 1: Get a Boner

Step 2: Pull your cock out

Step 3: Push her head down

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Consider the relationship on hiatus as it seems one sided. Like MysteryJ said, go out there and socialize with other girl, whether it is to make her jealous or just to find someone better. DO IT. Also freeze his be-otch out. She expects you to call her every other day...DO NOT. See how long you can go without talking to her before she sends you a message. You are the alpha. Lead this bitch!

Spread Love Ders also has a great suggestion. haha!

1. you need to be the prize.... not her.

2. dont even call her... wait... she will call you..

3.. if she does not call you... hook up with those other girls

4.. for a less risky move,, make sure she see's other girls hitting on you,,, make sure she knows other girls are attracted to you... if she goes out when you are socialazing, this wont be so hard.

5.. if this girl keeps acting this way,, and you have other options,, take them.

6.. start treating her like what she is,, a girl...... with all the weakness it comes with.... you know the game right?... you know how girls are.... you are an intellegent man, if she cant keep up with your level... dump her, try to make sure you have other options when you do.

7... cheating is a moral delemia..... its up to you..... i consider this girl, a canidate to be cheated on.....

8... i would not be supirsed if this girl is a canidate for a MSTR.

9. in fact,, if she does not shape up,,, why not go ahead and cheat it on her... if and when she founds out,, blame it on her,, use some illogical bull crap.. (i was drunk, she was comming on to me so much?? lol)...........

... Then, turn her into a STMR.... short term mutiple relashionship.... if you have the opertunity to build up a group of F*ck buddys,, why not do so?.... if your going to dump her any ways

10.. take care!

How shitty the relationship might be, don't cheat on her. She'll get hurt, you get a bad reputation.

First of all; how old is she?

Second: get out of it, because you can't change people as a general rule. I've been there, i tried EVERYTHING. NOTHING works.

Try it, good luck, but don't expect you will ever be able to turn the tables.

Take it or leave it.

Fantastic advice gentlemen
I appreciate the amount of effort so many of you have put into your responses!
Ill take everything said into consideration and use what I think would work best, particularly freeze outs.

If she doesnt respond well to freeze outs, then im through. Im just unlucky that my first girlfriend happens to be one of those 5% which are difficult to game.

My friend actually gave me really good advice the other day, saying "Youre 18, man. You dont need a "sophisticated" kind of girl like her, you want to either have a cute little f buddy or enjoy your time as now is the best time to be single".
And I think he is exactly right.

Thanks again,
Later

a) dump her
b) cheat on her and let her find out, then blame her for making you cheat

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you should never cheat a woman. never.

You answered your own question. The moment a girl does something that isn't making you happy, let her know. If she keeps doing it, walk away. Having the ability to just walk away like that is POWERFUL. The longer you keep allowing her to treat you badly, the more she'll just keep on doing it.

P.S. this should be moved to the relationships section.

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