Okay here it goes.

I feel that I fall in love very easily if a girl shows intrest towards me. I'm very emotional person and I consider myself being kinda of a romantic. I thought first that since I was more sensitive it would help me with women. Actually I think it's causing trouble now. The symptoms are the following.

- I get stuck on the person
- I think about her all the time
- I would give anything to have her. Even though I know deep inside she doesn't deserve it. I just imagine the roses more beautiful than they actually are.
- I def show more effort than the other person
- I get upset/gloomy if the other person doesn't do the same things for me, which the don't btw, cuz I'm a lovefool.

I saw a good post about one-itis and managed to fit into all description on the list.

I want to lose this quality. I'm sure my romantic and caring behavior will work when I have a relationship, but before that I feel I repel the women with my behavior. It feels like I can't control myself sometimes. It sucks. I'm trying meeting new peeps in clubs and bars SPAM, but it's not going so hot.

I would love to hear tips how to shake this behavior. I'm def thinking stop listening to love songs although I love music. Also I'd appreciate tips what to read to improve my game.

PS. I'm not gay or anything, but I can just relate to this "true love and romance" stuff for some reason. Just though you should know

Whenever you get those feelings for a girl, think about her getting pounded by a guy she met that night and while you're sending love poems and whatever he's ramming her through the wall and doesn't even know her name. The sweet little flower you worship, another man came into her life and treated her like shit and she gave up the pussy.

True story. It's mind-boggling how many women that are considered so sweet and innocent go out and have a casual encounter. They are all capable of it just as much as any man is. I know this isn't psychologically the best thing to do, but you need to harden yourself and not be such a "romantic". Women will ALWAYS say they want that shit, but they get tired of it quick if everyday is like a Valentine's Day explosion.

I know it's easier said than done, but you should just treat them like equals. Dont buy shit or take them out to dinners right off the bat because it screams, "Have sex with me, please!". Let that testosterone kick in, you dont have bend over for anyone to get what you want, FUCK romanticism. IF anyone is to get credit for the death of Chivalry, it's women.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ic7KH1PpbMY

Bitches aint shit.....

That kinda hurt, but thanks. I just feel what the hell is there if I can't have her, since I don't have anything else going on with other girls. I know there are girls I'm potential to meet, but that seems kinda empty right now, since I don't know them yet and I don't know when I'm gonna meet them. My game ain't very solid SPAM, since I just found out about the community.