How the fuck do us guys make sure our girls dont cheat? i mean its been proven girls in general enjoy sex more than men. I know this is an unhealthy way of thinking but nothing messes with my head like thinking while im away my girlfriend is flirting with guys, kissing them and even worse shit. Probably a deeper issue here but right now all i want is ways to make her not fool around when im not in town. The only reason i have to not trust her at all is because i was at her house and she was on some Chat site flirting with a guy but i confornted her on it and she had a break down and told me its just a random people chat site, checked out the site and yeah its a site where randomly you get messages, see peoples random profiles and stuff.

here is how you win this battle: do not care.

give her permission to see other people, matter of fact, ENCOURAGE her to keep her options open, let her know that you love her very much but if ever the day arises that you aren't enough for her, that she needs to just move on.

because the answer to your question is that YOU CAN'T. you can not stop a girl from cheating. you can be the best pua or even mpua in the world and if your woman wants strange dick, she is going to find it and ride it. boom. that's it.

i've adopted a nothing but open relationships policy. the problem then is ... well, disease. that's the one good thing about a truly monogamous relationship is you can do down on her and not worry about, well...you get the idea, etc.

idk, 2/3 of relationships are ended by the woman. that should tell you something.

What Mack is saying makes sense, but you need to establish these guidelines before hand. If you have a strict "no cheating" policy, then acting like you don't care if she cheats is a bad idea. I have girls with boyfriends flirting with me all the time cause they say their boyfriend doesn't seem to care.

There's nothing you can do about it. This may sound pessimistic but my general rule of thumb is that if I think my girl is cheating, she probably is. Trust is earned. Your girl seems to be doing some dubious shit, but it COULD be nothing. Not all girls are the same