rite fellas just want your opinion on something here. been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, have had a few dates with her and things seem as if their going along nicely. everytime ive asked her out tho ive done it by text so far, and altho shes always agreed she is a fairly bad texter -which ive negged her on a few times and laughed and joked about it.

ok so last time i was with her was wednesday, jus met up for a coffee, then back to mine, and a bit of heavy petting lol, and a fair bit of talking. ive made no contact with her since so i was thinkin of either ringing her on sunday night, or just calling round to her house (since shes literally round the corner).

so what would be better, ringing/texting or just calling at her house un-announed and then just setting up a date for this week?

call her and make up a random story thats interesting to her and suggest her coming over? if its been a couple of dates i would think you would have kissed her by now...and dont text... call

yea course ive kissed her. I dont need to make up any bullshit story to call at her door, il just be like - "I was in the neighbourhood". only reason Im thinkin of doin it this way is because I want to keep things fresh and im getting pretty bored of asking her out through texts, plus the fact that im always telling her to think outside the box

call no text. text is for building rapport and if ur passed that it shows shyness and that ur not confident

I agree with drewuggz. Call her if you want to hang out. I like to keep things short when I call a woman. I don't want to be on the phone to long as to keep it from getting boring. Just call, say you're feeling spontaneous and you want to get together. I wouldn't just show up to her door unexpectedly though. Most of the time, the women I hang out need at least half an hour to get ready.

ditto