Hey guys, first of all I'm pretty new to this forum, but I've been practising pickup for about a year and half now.

I'm currently dating a girl that I picked up and by using my PUA skills, she's fallen for me big time! My style is very much a mixture of Mystery Method/Cocky Funny. The problem I am now finding is that she wants more than a casual relationship and though I've told her that I only want this, I feel that this is making me a challenge to her, and therefore she wants me more (I know, I'm actually gaming her without trying, lol). The problem is that even though I sound like a complete ass hole, I actually do care about her feelings and I won't to end it with her before things get out of control (she keep saying that she wants to meet my parents and hang out with me all the time etc, I'm not ready to settle down like that yet). Before I start getting called AFC, I always remember what Style said "always leave them better off than when you first met them". She's crazy about me, and even though I got into the game to meet girls like her, I've fallen into the the trap of wanting more women!

I know this is crazy, and will sound arrogant to some, but the reason I post this question is because even though I say some outragous things to girls as part of my pick up routines, I also still don't want to upset them and be a complete prick after I have seduced them!

Obviously, there is plenty of help with getting girls, but not much on how to finishing with them.

Thanks guys

Heatwave666

I don't care about the reasons why you break up.

but, I broke up with my ex this tuesday so..
here goes:

Tell her that you want to speak with her in private. (never break up online or by phone)
And tell her that you just don't feel it for her, or something else that doesn't sound too harsh! :p
Try not to talk too long, this makes it worse..
Please don't say anything that makes her mad
And make sure that you have all your stuff retrieved from her home before breaking up! So you don't have to go to her house again :p

Hope this helped!
And remember: Breaking up is never fun, and be ready because she might cry, scream or get mad at you xD

oh shit yeah good thinking, she's got my box set of 24, lol.

Thanks for the advice, I'll definately try not to talk too long, I've done that before and yeah you're right, it definately makes it worse!

Thanks

heatwave666 how long into gaming did you break free of one-itis and just want a mass amount of women? Just making a transition from one-itis (AFC) to PUA.

Pretty early on, i would say about a month in i started getting really confident and was meeting more and more women, and then decided that i want to keep doin this rather than meeting just one girl and having a relationship. I wouldn't say
I'm a complete PUA yet, ive still got lots to learn about stuff like this, but im definately not thinking in a one-itis afc way. I'm I am still sarging, but Im just not ready for commitment yet. Ive upset girls in the past and been acused of leading them on, and I just want to find a more tactful way of dealing with it for now and the future. I know most would say just grow some bollocks and do it, or just keep gaming her but I'm not really one of these bitter guys that just wants revenge for all the years I was not that great with women. I enjoy making women feel good! Like I say, I tell her all the time im not wanting anything serious and she agrees, but I can tell from things she says and does that she wants more than just a casual relationship.