Storyline:

went out with a spanish friend and a visitor of her. We were with 5 girls and me as only boy. In the club another (ugly) girl was hitting on me.

In the end we (me and the 2 spanish) went home. The one basically said to me: do you want to fuck my visitor? I said: why not. (the visitor didn't understand the language we were talking).

When at home, i told her to ask to visitor if she wants to fuck. She asked and so we went to the same bed. (In the disco there was only minimal kino, nor comfort... really crazy.. attraction i guess was created by me being hit on by another girl)

anyway when fucking...

I COULDNT KEEP MY DICK HARD !!! Foreplay all fine. She sucked me, all fine. Then condom on, she did, all fine but it started to get worse..

the beginning of fucking was good too but after a minute of 2 my dick wasn't hard enough so it was difficult to keep him inside.. which was too annoying and in the end we basically stopped fucking.

what was this? I had it before too with a girl.. And i don't feel like i would cum.. It's like nothing was happening.. I was a bit drunk though, and i had to pee quite hard..


any input? Probably i'm going to fuck this girl again tonight or tomorrow so i don't want the same to happen..


thanks

Hey!

Well, this is an easy one, there was no challenge... no friction... no sexual foreplay...

if you played a push -pull game with her, you would have build up to the moment of having sex, and really enjoying it, cuase there would be this game around it...

now you got it so easy, that you have low value for it....

result, ur not as horny and ur dick doesn't stand his man!

cheers!

It could be a lot of things, have you been stressed out lately, physical or emotionel? Maybe she didn't turn you on THAT much or so..

Bottom line: It happend once, don't overthink it. If you can get hard while you're alone, you have nothing to worry about.

Like the poster above me said, if you can get an erection with other women or alone it's most likely not physical, although drinking and condoms (which should be used!) can decrease sensitivity and the former can also decrease blood flow.

What you don't want to do is to obsess about this, with her or anyone else, or it will likely get worse. Instead focus on being relaxed and comfortable (if you have to piss, do it first, what's the rush?) as well as enjoying the experience and pleasures of sex. Don't focus on getting hard or finishing, focus on how good everything feels, how hot she looks, how she smells, that sort of thing. Don't allow your stress and worries to take you out of the moment.

Regular exercise, proper nutrition, and getting enough sleep can also help fend off ED or retarded ejaculation, in addition to making you feel a whole lot better.

Good luck man,

If it starts to happen again with you simply think about a 10HB that you are crazy about it, imagine her foreplaying them fucking everything....

it helps me when Im so drunk that I cant never come, then I imagine Im fucking another girl and come hahah weird I know...

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Thanks, good post

Were you hammered? Whiskey Dick sucks.