As stated in my previous posts, I don't really run any method. I just go out with friends, get some beers and start meeting girls.

It go well so far, 3 k-closes last saturday.. But the problem is, nothing led to more, I simply stop escalating after we make out.

There is two main reasons:

a) I don't really know what to do afterwards, it will just end up in feeling on her and hoping something will do the trick.
b) I live with my parents, so taking her home to me isn't really an option (Well, I'm only 19, so it might not be THAT embarrassing).

And another thing are, when I get their number I usually try to meet up as fast as possible, so I don't fade from their memory and our connection stays strong. But often I get flakes, they still responds to my messages but they don't want to meet. Maybe I need to put some sexual energy into my messages.

So any advice/guidelines/books on escalating and textgame would be VERY helpful!

-ILJ .

My suggestion: Let her feel the miss of you... And let her mind wonder

With kiss closing: Kiss her, stay a bit with her, then leave... leave her alone for a couple that she doesn't know where you're at, and that she starts thinking about you... then return... feel the situation a bit, but leaving works...

After number closing: Wait 2 - 3 days before contacting her, again, that she starts thinking why you haven't contacted her yet... then contact her...

Try this...

I'll give it a shot, thanks !