hey guyz !!

i've been making contact with a lot of girls for last couple of weeks and this question is beginning to haunt me

"you got any girlfriend?"

since i've been a long time AFC, i haven't had a single girlfriend.
Well i've had girls as friends and some good friends as well, but they don't qualify to my definition of GF....which is a girl whom i'm fucking and goin' out on a regular basis.

so what do you think i shud do....... just mention some random girl and make up some story on the spot about her !!

or shud i tell the girl dat I havn't had a girlfriend till date ! but i think this is gonna harm my game and hurt me on the "preselection" side.

what do u think i shud do ??

reasure me, you're 15 yo, right?

if you're 15 just say you haven't had many serious ones. Never really commited so far. It's evasive enough but the point is made, you're not used to it and don't have anything very interesting to say about it, save you from more questions.

if you're in your 20's say that you only commited once when you were whatever age. Will still make her feel special if you do get into something but not TOO special like the first girl ever you had a deep connection with.

bbardot, thanks man for your reply !!

but why u thought dat i'm 15 ? did u find my question very lame ?
if it is then plz pardon me coz i'm a big time AFC !!!!

well, frankly i want to give girls a very player kind of image of mine ! i think this is gonna get me more positive response !!

wat do u think ? wat kind of personality should i convey to these girls? am i on a wrong foot here by showing myself as a player ?

or showing myself as more of a committing kind of guy will benefit me?

wat kind of personality gets the best response ?

Same situation here, but what works best for me is being honest. Give it a cute spin though.
Example:

(So we've been talking, been hitting it off)
HB: So, how many girlfriends have you had?
Me: Zilch! Yeah, I was a real shy guy throughout highschool. *Smile, but don't show teeth* (Girls usually will call me out because now I'm very confident, they find it hard to believe)
HB: No way! You're not shy at all!

Now I can either play it as if I actually am, but when I saw her I really wanted to take that risk, like:
Me: I know, I know! Normally I wouldn't even think about doing this sorta thing but I knew I'd smack myself forever if I just let you pass.
(Note: This only works if they're the romantic type in my experience)

Or I can just be straight and say that college gave me a ton of confidence. If you're going to be honest say it with a straight face, usually they'll think it's cute and endearing and whatnot.

The only thing you NEVER want to do is be ashamed of it. If you show you're ashamed of it you're showing them that you have tried and failed, and if you failed with another woman why should she let you succeed?

great advice MisterHyde !!

tried this same thing on this girl and told her honestly that I was a shy guy and didn't had any girlfriends !!!!!

she just couldn't believe that I was saying that honestly and told me that how a good lier I am !!!

thankyou......a useful strategy in my repertoire !!!