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PostPosted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 8:49 pm 
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I'm in love (yes, i know it's bad) at someone of my school.
She is a 9 for sure (not saying this cuz i'm in love with her), and she's on boarding school with me. The fact is, i can barely talk to her without suffering from stress... I tried to work out a routine but since she's good friends with some of my classmembers, i'm afraid if i will get spotted trying (and therefor i dont approach her).
Can any1 give me some tips?

Greetz, Flamezz


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:20 pm 
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Between your situation and running across a mine field in an attempt to dodge bullets, which one would you choose?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:59 pm 
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/Facepalm

Can't you just.. Don't care about others?
Can't you just, do what you want to do?
*sigh.


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 6:51 am 
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ty, i'll try it :lol:


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 7:41 am 
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Well, that was remarkedly unhelpful.
Flamezz, Approach Anxiety is common for most people new to pickup. If you're not comfortable approaching her yet, approach other people, maybe outside of school. The newbie mission can really help. I still do it occasionally, just smiling and saying hi to everyone I meet. From the fattest whale to the hairiest dude to the hottest babe. You'll realize that people aren't scary (well, the ones that are arethe ones you want to avoid anyway), everyone wants to be liked.

A second thing perhaps is that you need to realize that she isn't that special. I know, it's like asking you to fall out of love, but this is a girl like many others, she just happened to catch your eye. If you keep thinking of her as The One, it'll work against you because you lose the ability to fail. And if you're not allowed to fail, you become much more nervous. The secret to PU is the fact that you can fail and move on. Hope that helped a bit. :)

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