Pretty basic scenario: Dated a girl for 4 months or so and she started getting really controlling. I became really passive and just started apologizing for things and she would just start drama over nothing. So as expected, things just kept going downhill and she started withholding sex so I ended things with her. I decided to employ the ole freezeout. Since then shes been texting me more and more frequently just bitching at me for ignoring her and random shit. I finally told her the other night that I just have a policy of not talking to exes and she has just been texting me 24/7 bitching at me. At this point I don't want her back but I was just wondering what her thought process is for future reference. I take it that shes frustrated that she isnt in control? Does she want me back though, and if so, why hasn't she suggested it? I feel like most girls go from anger --> guilt and insecurity ---> begging, but i'm new to the game and i'd like some input.

she is frustrated at her inability to have you/she believes she is entitled to you and you're not cooperating. for maximum win keep it up.