Wow, it's really interesting contemplating the music that goes around in our heads. I see my own music as a reflection of my emotional state. I don't know if it's true for you guys, and it certainly doesn't have to be true, as Art is complex and many things in life can be regarded with poetic license. But here is what I observe.
My own "dominant song" is not about sexuality at all. That says I'm feeling pretty far removed from sexuality. The song
is about what's going on in someone's head, so I'm clearly cognizant of what's going on in my head, and in particular, negativity in my head. I think the song is about "moving on" from the negativity, so I don't see it as a hopeless song, rather a "historical stage" that I recognize myself going through. I happen to like history and politics a lot, so my personality and interests are reflected in the song. The song in a sense can be "about me" even though it's actually about historical struggles in Ireland.
Also it's a bit funny to regard oneself in such a way. I always thought the video for the song was overwrought, so sometimes I have a bit of a chuckle about seeing any of my problems as so serious. Indeed, lately I find myself subverting the video of the song in my mind. I notice the lead guitarist is dressed rather boy-toyishly in leather for a protest song. I think the lead singer is fucking someone out of camera frame as she belts out that "eh heh eh heh eh heh eh heh eh heh eh heh eh heh" bit, with the camera in close on her painted, moaning face. And of course the pixies surrounding her in the crucifixion scene are totally Shakespearean faggy, very romanticized, plundering each other with their bows.
On the other hand I remind myself not to be a Hater. This is their Art, even if I think it's a bit overwrought. They had their success a long time ago and I haven't done anything to match it, so I should just get on with making my own Art. They believe in it, apparently they've played it at every concert, so there's a validity in being truthful about what you believe. Plus they're not showing the stupid video at every concert, ha ha ha! God that would get old, now I'm descending fully into "This Is Spinal Tap" and Stonehenge.
I notice that when I'm in a better mood going out and about, the volume of the song is lower. Or, I may get the opening bars of a completely different song stuck in my head. Some rap song that sounds like "kung fu training" to me, can't quite place it. My internal music is like a radio station where different emotions are on different parts of the dial.
For y'all's music, I notice you have a lot more danceable club music. I think you've actually got clubs to go to! My current town is pretty lame in that regard. Seattle had 'em but it wasn't amazing, it ain't no NY or LA. The music industry will represent stuff in videos that strikes me as damn near impossible, without tons of good looking paid extras, but I could be wrong. Regardless of any cinematic exaggeration, it's clear to me that not all places are created equal. I will try to have game wherever I am, in whatever circumstances I'm in, and be happy with Life regardless of competing images about life. But I do sense that getting the fuck out of Dodge might be of benefit to me.
Poor Kim. In comparison, "Zombie" is lighthearted and fluffy!
Looking at the video enactment, Eminem is very convincing but Kim isn't nearly scared enough. I don't know what the song means to you, but to me it's a good reminder that no matter how much we may tell ourselves that PUA is "the way to be," Evolution says otherwise. Slaying unfaithful mates is a good strategy for propagating your own genes and eliminating the competition. Animals more typically just slay the offspring though. That generally knocks the female back into estrus.
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