I went alone to the mall to sarge for my first time. I told myself to smile and say hi to every woman and try to approach and open when the opportunity arouse. I approached no one and said hi to a few. I smiled a everyone though but didn't really get a reaction from anyone (It did feel like a weak smile.) There were a few great opportunities to approach but I couldn't get the courage up before it was too late. Plan to go again tomorrow, so i wonder if you guys got any small tips i could use to get over my AA? Like something i can tell myself as a confidence booster, or focussing on a womans flaws.

I went out today and did the same, its sucks!!! haha
i talked to a girl at a sun glasses stand and was like ummm, these look good?
and she just sat there with a weird look on her face. ...

Then i talked to a girl at another stand that actually opened up to me, and was friendly. Had a good convo for a few then she had to speak with another customer, so whatever.

walking away from the 1st i felt like shit, but it was cool because i knew i was actually trying.

then the 2nd girl made it worth going out.
just gotta keep grinding and figure it out, what else can ya do

It just takes practice talking to people. You will get used to being friendly with cute girls. The more you work at it, the easier it becomes. AA is the worst acronym in PUA in my opinion... Alcoholics Anonymous? American Airlines? Oh, you meant Approach Anxiety... that's simply your body telling you not to prematurely ejaculate in your under-roos. Work on flirting with cute girls and turn that fear into excitement.

We do pranks and fun stuff where the goal is just to have fun, make a joke, or get intentionally blown out for the hell of it. Once you're in state and in the right mindset, you stop worrying about "rejection" and just say whatever random shit is on your mind!

Like this: being-comfortable-with-silence-vt85024.html

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stop caring about the outcome

way i see it, if you are focused on "picking up" a girl, you will get all nervous and shit

if you, instead, focus on just being sociable, they might throw their pussies right at you.

^ that..

Dont want anything from her.
Your the one out looking for "friends"
dont go out looking for love, sex, girlfriends, and relationships.
that stuff happens later.

i realized this and it helped me alot.

That video was magnificent. Watching something like you realize that with enough confidence you can almost do anything to pick up a girl. It's my nerves and fear that fuck up my interactions with women.

I went sarging today with this in mind and i did alot better.Smiled and said to at least a dozen women today. Some smiled back some didn't and i didn't care. I even got two minor convos going and finished without humiliating myself. It felt great, i was ecstatic the rest of the day. This forum and all your posts really helped me get out there again and try harder. This community is amazing. All your guys' help really keeps me determined to succeed wit women. I don't need a wingman yet, this forum is as good as one.

PS. I was checking something out of target today. My cashier and another one right behind her, began to friendly pick on this third cute cashier with a long line of customers close by. I knew I had a great opportunity to say something here but i just could think of anything to say. I heard her name when she was getting picked on. So i could have said "your Sarah I heard a bunch of other workers in the grocery isle talking trash about a Sarah you think they meant you. You seem slow.(pointing at the long line she has)"

What do you guys think a decent neg? What would you guys have said?

I would probably say something along the lines of, "Ohhhhhhh...So you're sarah! (with a smile) I heard some things about you!" this is if she has a nametag on, if not you would have to open to her first or ask her name, otherwise, it would be wierd.

But yeah, most likely she will be wondering what you heard. [MAKE SURE TO SMILE!!] You can then go on to tell her a little story about how you were walking through the grocery store and happened to hear something about sarah. Depending on how the convo goes or how she's reacting, it may or may not be necessary to neg her about the line, if you run out of things to say and need a subject changer or a panic button, this is where you could use the neg

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