This girl came to me when I was with someone else, she said she liked me/wanted to be with me we spent the next few days together she was really affectionate.. She said we were taking it slow, than on friday she starts blowing me off, saturday shes avoiding me, I go over with some friends and find out shes inviting some other guy over everyone starts freaking out at her over what shes doing b/c we were together but, she wants to mess with other people.

What the fuck I'm still talking to her but, should I just pretty much avoid all contact with her until she realizes she lost something great..?

lol she's cheking out other guys, so intentionnaly check out other girls. Show her you're having the time of your life even without her!

And when she comes to you, push her away like she ain't sh*t!

Yeah? im busy, i'll talk to you later *you walk away*

You gotta be mean, raw, with her. That way when you call her back, she doesn't know what to think, she gets confused, emotionnal and sticks with you!

Well honestly man it's quite simple. You were what she wanted and you made it to easy for her. Females want a guy who's going to challenge them. Not fold to there will. Which sounds like what happened in your case. Here is what I would suggest. Basically I'd suggest just getting over her. As stated above... Go out and have a blast. You don't need to put on a show for her, as it may come off as fake. Which you REALLY don't want. Just go out and do your thing regardless of if she is there, watching you or even cares. Girls want a guy who is challenging, period.

If she does take a run at you again, blow her off. You have better things to do then sit around waiting for her to show interest. Make her EARN the right to hang out with you again. She fucked up the first time but so did you. Don't let either happen again.

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