| Hey dudes, so im new to the forum and am only 16, but have decided to start my self improvement at an early age and have read a fair amount of the forum.
So there is this girl in school, i'd say a good solid HB8.5/9, great girl - good fun, very attractive, very smart ect.
And she gives me alot of IOIs, always compliments me on my style and how i smell ect.
We flirt a bit in one of my lessons, she smells me, i smell her back, we're quite playful together and have a good rapport and she has told me that i turn her on a few times and i feel she would make a good girlfriend/LTR or atleast friends with benefits.
My question is simply, how should i go about making her my GF?/how should i ask her out?
We don't really see each other out of school/hang out with each other and she does spend alot of time working/training. But i did very recently get her number which she seemed very happy to give me. Then dropped her a few slightly flirtacious texts the next day in which i esclated the number of x's in each text, to which she graciously complied by texting back the exact same number as i would each time.
Now I haven't actually had a GF/kissed a girl before, but that doesn't actually worry me at all. I'd much rather simply not kiss a girl i don't like rather than kiss her out of some silly ego driven shizz.
Above all else i would like to avoid the friend zone and i don't plan on asking her the question 'will you go out with me?'. It just seems very unoriginal and seems to give the power to her, so i'd much rather a nice smooth, fun way of doing it. And i guess i could hang with her and her friends at lunch occasionally/walk together with her to lessons and text her more, but i do fear the friend zone if i follow that path.
I am also aware that valentines day is coming up very soon and i could infact send her a rose, but - two of my good friends did that to her last year (one of them basically stalked her for 3 years and asked her out about 70 times, each time obviously ending in rejection and pushing her further away. The other one gave her a rose and then kissed her, before getting dumped the same day for fear of hurting my other friend's feelings). So i generally don't thinking buying her a rose would really be a good idea.
So i would like some suggestions on how i should Seduce her/ask her out/whatever. Bearing in mind that we're both only 16 that is and thus its not so easy to escalate and isolate her.
Any help/advice/comments is appreciated.
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