Maybe it's just me, but I notice a lot of PUA's, or rather the Pickup Gurus have a sort of "mystique" to them that doesn't really jive with many personalities, including mine (at least I think so).

So I'm just curious, where do you think you can draw the line between being funny and still being....I guess the word would be, direct? For instance whenever I enter a set I can get the group laughing and clearly everyone is having a good time, there are no problems getting "accepted" by the group...

..but sometimes I feel as if I wouldn't be able to sort of, sexualize anything with my target. Should I throw in some negs here and there? Should I get serious at any time? If so, how can I do it without ruining the moment everyone is in?

Or should I just make sexual innuendo towards my target whenever I feel necessary?

Just curious what you guys think...