I've !closed a Chinese girl 4 times and I'm European. We live in the same flat and she just came to the UK. Now, she's made some Chinese friends who she hangs out with all the time, from which I'm pretty much excluded.

In order to keep this "friend with benefits" frame going, is it necessary to have the same social circle of friends? Or is she just gonna lose attraction to me and go on to fuck some Chinese dude?

I know I am new to 'The Game' and the forum but I would like to share my opinion. Make her jealous man. Your job is to make sure she will come back for more. And you could also be a dominant male in the group whenever you hang out with them. Befriend her mates. Let them know she is your woman. All this kind of thing.

Sorry about the lack of details, my very first post.

Do you need to have the same social circle to keep hooking up with a girl? Or can you just be that guy she's fucking but doesn't normally hang out with her friends?

The way we usually hook up is I invite her to my room when she's at home alone, and then start running game 1-on-1. I cannot hang out with her friends coz I don't speak Chinese and they do. I have to basically initiate all conversation in English, but then I'm just left out.

dude... shes your roommate and your fuck buddy.... Keep it that way. There is no reason as to why you should have to merge yourself into her social circle, especially when you know you dont fit in. Just be friendly with her friends, be the cool fun guy, but keep your life away form her and her friends, you DONT have to try to fit in, honestly, you will look much better if you are cool and friendly, but keep to yourself, it will show a lot more value. Also, she's just your fuck buddy, she should have no trouble with you sleeping with other girls, just keep it like that, superficial, every once in a while fuck, she wants it, you want it... thats it, should it be any more complex??

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that's what I was thinking. It's just you can read all this shit about social proof and drawing her into your world, so I wasn't sure if that can affect your game

Dude be careful with that Living and Shagging together thing, because its one step away from the relationship (Unless you want that...). If shit goes sideways, it is going to be awkward living together...