So i met a girl, danced for 15 mins.. got her number, saw her in a club another night, danced with her, got with her for about an hour, just as she leaves she says to text her

i wake up the next morning and shes text me already.. so weve been texting for a like 6 hours not always instant replies but you know..

so then i drop this on her ..

Straight Up: "im pretty booked out the rest of the week, but im just brainstorming now... we should go grab a drink or something saturday for an hour or so!"

HB: "erm i cant do this weekend luv lol"

Straight up: "boo! ur boring lol, next week sometime it is then what days you free?"

HB: "I dunno babe cos i syart my new semester"

Straight up: " fair enough, well if u do find the time lemme know and ill check my diary lol"

and texts have completely died now.

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So what is this, in the club she was ON it, seemed so interested and the next morning.. but now soon as i mention going out shes resisting a bit?
she did actually do this in the club.. but thats different, not letting me kiss her straight away to make herself seem harder to get right? but i just stayed on point and got through it pretty quick, was making her laugh.. smile constantly and we were both having a good time
i sent a few C&F texts which worked, so what is this now? should i take it that shes actually busy and keep texting/talking and trying or just freeze-out? i dont really wanna give up on her, shes EASILY a HB9-10.. but i will, im not TOO fussed, just seems like a waste if i do

oh yes.. just to add, she is so hot she even had guys approaching her WHILE we were grinding and getting with each other... so maybe if i freeze her out it would seem like a good thing cos i doubt many guys will just forget about her after getting as far as i did.. but i think maybe i should stay persistent it seems thats what she likes

I have always found going cold on your hotter targets may help. If you think you may be in a losing battle it's worth a try to experiment. If she is getting approached even when you are dancing with each other she doesn't have a problem finding guys.

you want to convey that you aren't just some chump that is lining up to hook up with her. If anything SHE is the lucky one for getting your number and using your valuable time.

how do you mean going cold? freezing out? or cold approach? cos ive never even really looked into cold approach so ill have to do a little research about it if thats what you meant

going cold at least the way i use is ignoring the girl. For example if i see a girl that i think is quite attractive and the other males around me are responding to her. I know that by pretending she isn't there or ignoring her will help me. most girls will think "wait why is THIS guy not paying attention to me". Just because she is hot doesn't mean she deserves any extra attention than any other girl.

Once you disarm them mentally by seeing that you can proceed to treat them just like any other girl. Following my example above if I was at a bar and she was in the way I would look at her like she is in the way and just roll my eyes. Then I would I may throw a friendly neg and the game begins.

If the flirting was on text i usually don't respond right away let it sit a bit make her sweat then text her at your convenience. Every move that you do should be deliberate and on YOUR terms not hers. I have even gone as far as to flake on girls just because I know they will want to hang out even more, once they see that you aren't waiting around for them rooted on the spot.

hmm ok, well she just text me now saying:

"ok, but i dont even know where your from or how old you are? *hides behind hand*"

i am 18, she is 21, im half iraqi half welsh, i have no idea where shes from lol.. i think she may be arab too or spanish or something though, not too sure..! and i got no idea why she put the '*hides behind hand*' thing lol, but ive not text back yet...

should i reply to her and her questions or maybe keep the mystery and say something like "itll all be revealed after a drink or two haha", i think thats the reason she doesnt want to go out yet though, she might be scared that im too young/old and then have the awkwardness of us having to spend another hour together or something?

how should i overcome the age thing? i dont have a problem with it, should i put the pressure on her by saying something along with my age or should i just say straight up that im 18

i only know shes 21 from her facebook, so i could ask her how old she is too.. but to be honest that could just be a bit pointless