so me and this girl have been talking for like 2 months we had sex twice but she says she dosent want to go out... she told me she liked me alot and that it might be love but on sat i called her and we had an argument i didnt call her next day when i called her on monday she said she didnt feel the same about me and she didnt want anything to do with me i forced it and i grabed her so many times and she wouldnt kiss me and she didnt even want to hug me i begged so much which is bad but i was just feeling terible. she says she dosent want to talk anymore and that everything is over and to move on i dont know what to do anymore should i just stop talking to her i know she still likes me a little

The best things to do is to leave her alone, or you will creep her out and lose her forever. To me you were just casual dating her. What you feel is not love, it's one-itis, you can't accept to be rejected. You should NEVER beg a women to do anything for you, it's a big DLV. By doing that, women will never respect you. You are the MALE, behave like one. There are still more than 3 billions women.

STOP seeing and contacting her. You better to find ANOTHER one, she might come back sooner than you thing.

Agree with this 100%

I chased my ex girlfriend for two whole years without any luck. Literally the moment I stopped talking to her, and started to date new people she began chasing me.

However, some girls get the ideology that "If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy." in the case where you did something bad to her like cheating. I personally asked some girls what they would think if their ex gave them the space and they all said, "It'll just mean he didn't care anyways. If he did, he'd try harder." I have a friend who chased his girl after cheating on her for about a month and a half and she told me how it was the "sweetest thing" when he got on his knee at the very end and asked her to be his for the last time (she got back with him and they're still together).

I'm dead serious, some girls want the fairy tale.

I understand what you mean, in some very specific case it might work, more specially if you fucked up and there is true love. I don't think it's worth the energy. You see that only in movies and TV show, chasing a girl like crazy is over rated. I don't want to feel like the guy who is begging a girl to come back, if you do that, more likely she will play with you like a little toy. Read what he said again, she's done with him. He's should pull back and don't fuck it up more. Play with the time !
Do you think a girl would say, "oh by ignoring me and fucking other girls, he totally made me crazy, I wanted him so much more". Women don't say when they are jealous. From personal experience, by letting a girl go, 90% of the time, she'll come back, it's a fact.
If she blames you because you are fucking someone else, you can say " I was hearth broken, I didn't know what to do, and I just end up punishing myself more", or "You made my dick homeless. And out of doors is a place where penises don't generally fare well. So my homeless dick now must seek shelter where and whence it can".

should i just cut all contact with her... and theres a problem i see her at school sometimes how should i act there because i know shes going to come up to me what should i do and if she dosent what should i do should i talk to her a little or not at all what about on the phone wow so many questions going through my head

man. i JUST got over my one-itis after being a bigger chump than i've ever been in my entire life for the past 6 months. i let her treat me like shit and walk all over me. this has never happened before. i was/am totally disgusted with how i acted.

the persistence thing is bullshit. sure, it might work sometimes, but that relationship will never work. the guy has just permanently handed his balls over to his new mistriss. she knows he will never leave her. she can do whatever she likes.

but that's besides the point. this girl is not down bro.

Freeze her the fuck out. cut all contact. delete from facebook. delete from phone. delete all memories. And never, ever, contact her again.

step two is GFTOW!!!!!! seriously!

get on a game rampage and just go pick up until your balls hurt. the only cure for one-itis is to meet someone else or get a serious hobby or job that takes your mind off of it completely. but given that you're here, you need to meet some new women. go direct at the mall, indirect at school, and go meet everyone at bars/clubs on weekends. read one game guide. chief's guide in the PUA lounge is a very decent one to work with. play it cool and get over her. one-itis is serious. its painful. it requires you to build back your manhood, go get it back.

If she says hi, says hi, be polite, nothing more, nothing less. As Philosoraptor said, keep yourself busy. Invite friends over, do sports, and healthy things for your body and your mind, have an attractive lifestyle.
You don't need to kick her from facebook or delete her #, you can just delete her from your feed so you won't see what she is posting. I think deleting from facebook your ex is kind of being a kid.

but i dont think my relationship is like that because i have never begged before that. we have gotten in fights before and always go back with each other. before i never had a realationship i was always just hooking up with girls and she knows that. and i told her i didnt want her to be just a hook up that i could really get to like her and we had amazing moments. it was only her second time having sex at all and it was with me so i know that was a big deal to her. yesterday i slept over and thats when she would push me off of her and tell me to leave her house but for a few moments she would give in at one point i told her to please not let me go that i love the feeling i felt for her and we hold each other not speaking just hugging for a long time. i felt like she was holding back form giving in to me and i told her that at first she said she didnt like me at all then she said she did like me still a little but it wasnt strong enough. i was so close to kissing her so many times because i would hug her and get her into the moment. i said i know this is all over now even though i didnt mean it and as i was walking out my heart was beating super fast so i grabed her hand and put it on my heart and said this is for you. and i gave her a pek. she didnt move at all i feel like she realized i was being kinda serious. what do you think is going on i tell her shes putting on a front and the reason is she dosent want to fall in love and she says its not true but i kinda feel like shes holding back what do yall think sorry for the long paragragh and i really apreciate all the help because im going through a hard time thanks

IMHO, i would suggest cutting her loose completely! if she thinks your not interested at all, the she may change her tune and come to you. but, i think you would need to just stand up and move on. if she really wants you, she will come. if not, theres billions more out there.

again, thats just my humble opinion.

ok so i went to her house last night and she told me that she had hooked up with some other kid and that she had slept over at his house and she realized a lot of things. the thing is that we were not going out or anything it was just like we were hooking up but in a cute way. should i be mad at her for doing this or should i not give a shit it does bother me what should i do. the thing is that i slept with her and i ignored her a little but at the end of the night i made out with her and fucked her. she said that we have a really strong sexual conection but that may be it but i dont think shes saying the thruth what should i do just keep ignoring her and hooking up with her from time to time or just let it go do yall think she likes me and what about her hooking up with that kid how should i act when she brings it up and should i bring it up ever

i say, a little of both! ignore her a little... fuck her a little! PLAY THE GAME MAN!!!!

if things develop, let them develop naturally over time. you dont wanna rush into anything.