I am going to cut right to the chase here, I have been dating this girl about 6 months ago. It all started out fine, but totally chickened out to kiss here. Now I'm studying on the other side of the country so I don't really get to see her that much anymore. (She lives near my parents) I got the let's just be friends thing from her a couple of times. But she keeps flirting when I am with her. We talked about it once and decided to just be friends (well mainly she did).

When I go out sarging I keep thinking about her. Heck, I even have dreams from time to time about here.

I feel like this is a problem I really need to fix before I can go on and successfully sarge.

Any advice on overcoming one-itis is much appreciated.

First off - she's keeping you in friend zone because that is what is benefitting her. You're like the "block of attention" when she needs it. She's flirting with you because she knows you want more and she doesn't. She flirting with you because it gives her power. She hasn't been in a relationship either for the couple of months I'm guessing?

Anyways - to get over her. Is to block her out of your life in a concious way. Ignore her, stop giving her what she wants. And go out - set your mind on meeting new hot woman! Come on man!

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You were right on with your advice. And yes, she hasnt been in a relationship for a while. Thanks a lot man:)

No problem mate, glad I could help you out!

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