Ok so first post and a good hello to <a href="">PUA Forum</a>s

Anyway background story, I was introduced to the background of PUA from a good friend of mine. He's been in this for a while now and I'v seen him work his magic rather well. So he advised me to look it up and I did a fair amount of study and well let's just say I definetly improved.

My issue is this, I'm a little stuck.

I'm DJ (bonus points woop woop) and ever since my DJing has started to take of like travelling interstate to play at concerts and what not. I have had a lot more interest from females.

Putting this into perspective girls that I previosly before study tried and failed at, have started to contact me out of the blue "Hey haven't spoken to you in ages! I see your DJing now?". It's pretty ridiculous as some of these chicks are ridiculously hot.

Now my issue is this kind of attention I'm not used to. How would I go about pulling dates out of these sort of things as obviosly my first impressions haven't been grand now with some sort of training behind me I'd like to pull out some new stops on them. Obviosly I'v sparked some sort of interest in them, how can I use it to my advantage?

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Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. -Soren Kierkegaard
A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one - Tupac

Mate DHV, youre in a different world to these girls. Tell Them stories, be humble but talk about all the crazy things that happen. Come to one of my gigs sometime, you can buy me a drink afterwords. Make her work for your attention. Youre the shit bro and these girls need to work for your time. Youre a busy cool guy. Firsts first. You gotta talk tell stories, be laid back when chatting to these girls. Body language is important. So right youre speaking to one of these girls, talk over your shoulder and make her bring you to her, any minute you need to roll. If i was talking to one i would number close straight after a false time constraint. Bacially: Tell her you cant talk for long i need to go in a minute "something DJ related maybe", look im having a gig soon, come by and you can buy me a drink after i amaze you with my music, maybe throw in a bit of light kino to show you aint a chump. Then when you see her. You gotta make her work for your time. Always look like you gotta do shit. Neg her. Tell her her nose wiggles when talking, always a good one. Be playful with it. Smile, be fun. IF shes into you look for the IOI's. Initiate the Squeeze test. Ask for her hands if she squeezes back then you know shes interested more often that not. Mysterys Kiss-close is always good to use. Ask her if she wants to go somewhere more comfortable, to a seating area....more talk, if she blabbers on say...you talk to much, do you want to kiss me...if no/ say i didnt say you could, you just look like you got something on your mind. If maybe, say lets see. Im probably sounding awfully confusing, but i got soo many ideas for you. You have HIGH VAULE and u aint using it. lol

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New to the Game, growing in confidence. Introduced to PUA on a short weekend to see a friend. His friend ultimately changed my life and in a short period of time i have gone from limited to great success out in the field.

Oh mate confusing a little am I getting some of it yes

Few of your idea's I'm familiar with. Though I do live in a small city so testing them is a hard task. I'm mainly finding the issue of moving from non face to face contact to actual meeting. Breaching this gap I think could provide a big bridge to testing my game . But I must say I'm honestly appreciative of your enthusiasum.

I have no issues talking to them I'v been able to push most of my nervousness that I previosly had away (thanks to DD). Face to Face contact is not much of an issue it's bridging the barrier between the phone and the meet

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Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. -Soren Kierkegaard
A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one - Tupac

if thats the case. All you need to do is surely be assertive on the phone. Im taking you out so and so date...fair? Ive found HB's like guys who dont fuck around, are in control, and once you meet these girls thats where your date game comes in right? I mean you just gotta be prepared to be knocked back on the phone, but if you fail fail bad.

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New to the Game, growing in confidence. Introduced to PUA on a short weekend to see a friend. His friend ultimately changed my life and in a short period of time i have gone from limited to great success out in the field.

I like the idea.

So essentially a simple example phone call would be along the lines of:

"Hey what's up juice box" (my standard name I deal out)
"Hey not much yourself"

Then straight to the point no messing around

"I'm taking you out get dressed I'll meet you in about 30 mins"

Obviously with variation. But the essentials are assume the power by taking control of the situation then once the bridge is broken assume positions for the game?

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Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. -Soren Kierkegaard
A woman brought you into this world, so you have no right to disrespect one - Tupac

maybe not so direct, i mean 30 minutes doesnt give her much time to get ready.

But essentially yeah!

let me know how it goes

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New to the Game, growing in confidence. Introduced to PUA on a short weekend to see a friend. His friend ultimately changed my life and in a short period of time i have gone from limited to great success out in the field.