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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:07 pm 
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Well, tonight I was around my ex girlfriends and things started getting steamy, I was rock hard right up until the moment I was about to have sex with her, and then suddenly, pfffttt.. it went down.

This is the fourth time this has happened to me now, we were taking things very slowly, exploring each others bodies etc.. so it couldn't have been down to lack of hornyness.

Any idea what could be causing it to happen every time? What are the chances of the Doc prescribing me Viagra or some sort of pill to help?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:16 pm 
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This happens to a lot of guys, myself included, so don't stress too much over it.

Considering you were hard before you went to enter her, and judging by it only happening four times I take it you have had sex before, so this shows that it's (most likely) not a physiological problem, so you don't need the viagra. Some docs may prescribe it you to help you, but you don't want to become dependent on that stuff.

It will all be in your head, even if you think it isn't. You can be nervous without sweating and shaking. It's happened before, so in your mind you'll be thinking "ok, gotta stay hard, I hope it doesn't happen again..." this will take you away from the moment and your horniness will plummet - it's a vicious cycle.

You've got to completely think with your cock. Take your mind out of it altogether. This may sound like weak advice but trust me it does work. Just focus on the physical things, keep telling yourself in your head how you want to be inside her etc, and don't let any thoughts of anxiety enter your thoughts.

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