Hi there!

I'm looking into diving into a new method. I''ve been working on the Stylelife Challenge. While I have certainly benefited from it I'm beginning to think that I should have made more progress by now. If you don't mind I'd like to give you a little info about myself and maybe some of you can give me recommendations on some good pua material to look into.....

I'm 30 years old and I live in a larger city with plenty of bars and clubs and all they typical stuff to do. While I have plenty of friends I don't have a wing to game with. For someone my age I don't have much experience with women. I have been in one serious relationship and I have only slept with 2 women. I haven't gotten laid 5 months. Generally speaking, I am not an introverted person and I have quite a bit of confidence in most areas of my life; just not with women. I am very motivated to get out and talk to people,however, I am scared to go out by myself but I am willing to do so if I feel like I have the tools to be successful. I sometimes suffer from Approach Anxiety. Sometimes it destroys me and other times it doesn't exist at all. The reason it destroys me is a fear of not knowing what to say after I open. I often convince myself that it's pointless to open if I won't be able to go anywhere with it. So I guess you could say my 2 biggest sticking points are getting out of my house despite the lack of a wing and staying in set for longer periods of time. At the moment, I am not interested in sleeping with as many girls as possible but I'm also not looking for an LTR either. I am looking to consistently date one beautiful woman at a time until I am ready for a LTR. I'm also looking to get away from using canned material but I'm fine with using it until my confidence it up.

So..... I'm interested in trying out a new method. I've read up on the 60 Method and 4 Elements of the Game. Do any of you have any experience with either of these? I see more stuff on the forums about 60 but I've read good reviews about 4 Elements being good for newbies like myself. It also appears that 4 Elements comes with daily "missions" which I really like. That way I'm not trying to overload my head with info. Any other PUA material that you would recommend for a newbie. Also, I am well aware of the popularity of Mystery Method but, once again, for right now I'm trying to not overload my head with all kinds of info (I own a copy and intend to read it at some point).

I know this is long and if you've read through it I really appreciate it. If you have any input for a method that would fit my experience and lifestyle I would really appreciate it. I know that there is no magic pill but anything that can point me in the right direction is helpful.