| Dear Posters of PUA.
I would just like to thank you for reading my post and establishing this community. I'm sure guys like you are helping a lot of guys like me everywhere not to get laid but on a much more deeper level: helping us get what we desire in life.
Sorry for the wall of text to come.
I'm a senior in high school. Never kissed a girl before in my life. Never had a girlfriend before in my life, but I guess I have come close to it. I've liked two-three girls in my life. I failed miserably on the first, entering the "best friend" zone and failed to get out and failed to get her to see me in a more favorable light. So I dropped her. The second girl I liked just happened. She is/was the closest I've ever came close to having a girlfriend. I did fall into the LJBF zone again. She said to me that she doesn't deserve a guy like me and that I'm too nice to her. What crap.
Let's label these girls:
G1, G2, and G3.
The third girl I may/may not be interested in is intelligent, cute, funny, and nice. I'm not in the friend zone with her and am making sure I'll never enter that zone. The dilemma is that she is 1. 3 years younger, 2. one of my best friends sister.
She asked me
1. For my phone number, in which I responded I do not have a phone (I obviously do) - Before
2. If G2 was my girlfriend, (I responded no) - Before
3. To come over her house for Christmas (which I let her brother decide and of course he declined)
I took all of these an IOIs. Not sure if I should have though.
She would USE to always re initiate conversations with me, get me talking, ask me to talk with her, etc. Now not so much. I guess the saying is right, you want what you can't have.
Don't confuse this for one-itis. I'm comfortably trying to improve my game on other girls by hitting on them, showing magic tricks, improving my apparent value, and generally thinking about all girls in general.
Today I texted her saying something along the lines of stop texting in school and how she was a bad egg (in a playful manner of course) she responded in a playful manner as well saying I was a hypocrite. I had her text me last and I didn't respond. During our last period (Orchestra), she reinitiated the conversation with me saying how I shouldn't be talking because I texted people during school. I continue the conversation until she states that she doesn't want me to text her anymore (I'm going to guess this was in a playful manner as well due to the smile on her face). This bothered me. I then ended the conversation abruptly, sat down, and began flirting with the girl behind her. The girl behind her was giving me mad IOIs, as my jokes are terrible as usual, and I guess I am a terrible conversation holder. She laughed at all my jokes, reinitiated conversation, and whenever I looked at her and held eye contact she looked downward while fidgeting in her chair. G3 kept looking back at me, at one point it got so bad I (subtly) held my instrument to block her view. At the end of the period I put away my violin and I saw her looking at me with a smile. I looked back and smiled, made my way to her and said: "Sorry 'G3', I won't text you anymore."
Was that the right response?
That is all for G3 pretty much, but I wanted to see what you guys thought of that situation.
For G2: I think I made my way outside of the friend zone finally with her. I did this by re-establishing my value and freeze out for around 2-3 months. Prom is soon and I think my chances of her asking me (due to her being in a lower grade than me) are pretty high. She shows signs of IOIs by laughing at my crummy joke, giving me a new nickname, playing with her hair, re initiating conversation, and came extremely close to kissing me but awkwardly changed it into a hug.
Questions: What should my next plan of actions be? Any mistakes I made? Advice?
Thanks in advance! New Comer, Dareck.
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