Theres a girl i just met through someone else, I like her quite a lot but don't want to become needy.

I talk to her a lot online, I used to almost always start the convo...now ive stopped and she was like.... "you arent talking as much?!" i just laughed and she asked "whats up?" i just played it down and she then came back and started another convo with me instead me to her

should i always let her come to me unless i see her face to face, i know its only online but you can still pick up things.

Also, how long do you keep ignoring them till they give up?

thanks (using on screen keyboard so cant explain fully cause it takes ages)

The only way you won't look needy if you're not. If you want to talk to her. Talk to her if you don't then don't.

It's what you want...

Be a fucking man and control your life not let her control it. This is all she wants from a man. Yes if you start your convo with her twice a day you will give out the needy vibe. But then again you need to find something to do if you need to talk to her twice daily

I don't want to be pain in the ass but "how long" is almost always a stupid question. I'm quite successful with women and it doesn't matter if you sms her 1000 times a day and respond the same second you get her SMS or if you let her wait 3 days. If you're not needy then she'll know it (and other way around). Just do what feels right.

Thanks.

Is a lot of it to do with maintaining your confidence regardless if shes trying to play with your head...not reacting to her flirting with other guys and continuing to give off a vibe that youre cool with it.