I met her on her birthday about 4 months ago. 2 of my friends were going to her birthday dinner and asked her if they could bring a friend which ended up being me. We talked a bit but after dinner her friends wanted to go somewhere we didn't really wanted to go so we ended up not seeing them that night. I sent a friend request on facebook and she accepted. He talked a bit in the facebook chat the next day and a few other times but nothing that important.

About 2 months ago, me and my friends were in the club we go every weekend and she showed up there. We talked a bit but after a while her friends wanted to leave (they hate the place and she's the only one in her group who likes it). After this I have been talking to her more often on facebook and a few text messeges.

We both and most our friends are students and we're currently on exams period so we don't go out as much as we'd like but 2 weeks ago she posted on facebook she was going out. I was tired but a friend was telling me to go out (he hasn't had many chances to go out with us as much as he'd like lately and no one else from our group was going) so I decided to go. I texted her and she was with her friends heading to a bar we'd never tried so me, my friend and a few of his other friends (2 girls and a guy but all 4 are already in a relation) went there. It turned out the girls were still outside waiting to be able to enter and when we arrived they decided go with us. We headed towards our usual club but stopped in a bar close. I was trying to convince her to come to the club but her friends didn't wanna go. Her friends called me and told me I could go with her but I had to take care of her and nothing could happen to her or else I would be sorry (jokingly obv).

So she went to the club with me and 4 other people she didn't know (she had talked to my friend once before but that's it). We were there for a while, talked, had a good time but I never made the move. She couldn't drink more than a beer or 2 as she was driving and eventually we both left and she dropped me off at my house.

Yesterday it was a friend of mine's birthday and she was coming too and she only knew me and that friend (and my friend from 2 weeks ago was coming too). I talked and joked with her during the dinner, we went to a bar and had a good time again and we even went to that club but I couldn't make the move once again. She was driving again today so she dropped me once more. My friends told me I should make the move because she has to be interested as she left her friends the other night to be with me and this night she spend most of the time with me.

My problem is that I never had a girlfriend and only made out a few times with some random girls in a club because I got lucky. What advice can you give me? What are some readings and/or videos you recommend me?

Oo man thanks for the life story, you owe my eyes bigtime for reading all that. =]

Honestly I'm not sure what it is you wanna hear except the obvious. And when you say make the move what exactly is it that your talking about? Did you flirty with her at the club? Have you ever flirted with her?..

I got An idea.. Pick up your phone and call her right now!.. You have to take the steps to being successful, instead of whining about what you didn't do. Call her bro now. Don't back out( you probaly will). Talk for 20 mins then ask her out during the heat of the conversation. " hey I know this cool place down on blah an blah they make really good blah. I'm taking you there. You free tomorrow?"

I don't know what else you want. Take action an stop crying. Call her now! It'll be an important step. Otherwise she'll just see you as a friend which she probaly already does.

An dude you go to the club every weekend? There's thousands of other chicks out there. Come on man. There's so many other girls. Therefore even if the phone Congo doesn't go great you'll just meet a 100 more chicks all hotter than she is in the next month.

Call her bro.. Be a man an take action