Unanswered topics | Active topics |
New posts | Your posts
| Author | Message |
| almoody6872 | PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jan 24, 2011 2:25 am Posts: 63 Location: North Carolina | | I usually don’t answer their questions, nor do listen to them when they tell me what do. For example, if she says “Let’s go.” I laugh and say “Whoa, wait one second missy, I’m not ready yet.”
However, I think that this may be counterproductive once I we are in Day 2. As long as she does what I say, is it okay to do what she says. For example, “Let’s go.”?
When I NEVER do what she says it backfires and then she never does what I say. _________________ You only live once.
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| Ryan Black SashaPUA | PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:03 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:35 pm Posts: 2091 Website: http://www.sashapua.com Location: London | | You can retain the dominant frame without flat out REFUSING.
For example.
Her: "Let's go now"
You: "Ok sure! Let me just finish my drink and get my coat and we'll go in 5"
You're agreeing, but on YOUR TERMS.
May I also point out that the reason she may want to leave is so you guys can FUCK? Do you really care that much about being ALPHA about it? _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
FREE PDF w Openers, Date ideas and Videos on Direct: http://www.sashapua.com
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| VinceV | PostPosted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:23 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:58 am Posts: 32 | | Nice reply Blondguy... I agree 100%, you don't need to be a dick about it. You can maintain dominance like explained above... I think that is a very good response and I do it similarly...
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot post attachments in this forum
|