Sorry for being a caps lock dumbfuck, but i wanted to grab your attention.

Basically I'm trying to pick up this girl I went out with ages ago. (When we were at the same school, we are now at different schools)

She's a bit of a chav (lower class and stupid for all you yanks), so that will explain why I'm talking like a pikey

So here's the convo:

Me: Hey is this ____? x
HB9: yeah whos this??
HB9 who is this??
Me: It's nick g. I just wondered who this number was. Havent spoken 2 u in ages! How are you, wubu2 since school? x

Total bullshit, ofc I knew it was her!

Me: U there? X
HB9: yeah soz x lol x have hardly any credit but yeah i been good you??x
Me: Yeah I've been good. So you met up with any 1 since school? x

Asked this hoping for her to say no, so I could say we should meet up sometime.

HB9: Na not really x i see tom k around a lot cos hes at the same school as me x
Me: Yea same I havent seen any 1 i ages which is a bit sad x lol we should meet up some time for a little reunion x

Trying to mirror her language to build rapport.

Me: Wanna meet up some time like week end or something x
HB9: can't im always workin x this is my last text so text you tomorro when i get credit x
Me: K talk some other time x




That whole coversation was a day of texting.
And she hasen't spoken to me since.


Basically I'm asking for some help because I don't know what to do next.

In some ways I think she's interested, but in others I think she isn't because it seems like a one way conversation with me asking the questions.

I don't know whether to text her again, but that will just make me seem really afc and keen to talk or to wait for her to text back, which im not sure she'll do.

I am trying to get her to go out to the cinema with me because then I am pretty sure it's a sealed deal.

So basically, what do I do next, how will I make this conversation interesting and build rapport and how should I get her to go out with me?

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Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small people - Muhammad Ali

You double texted twice, and this "HB9: can't im always workin x this is my last text" means you're done. Sorry mate.

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"I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center."

"I'm going to give you a definite... maybe."

True I though so, but is there any way to carry on the conversation, she is really hot and im pretty sure when we meet up I will at least k-close her.


PS chill out on the posting man, its not a race to see whos got the most posts, 50 posts in 6 days!!!

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Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small people - Muhammad Ali

My go to method for judging AND spiking interest is the unanswered question. For example, "You WOULD not BELIEVE who I just saw" or something along those lines. It will get her to respond with something like "haha who?". Don't respond... if she double texts you, you're in.

It generally works for me, and could be worth a shot.

Whether or not you think you can make something happen in person, I HIGHLY doubt you will be able to get her to meet up with you via text.

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"I want to stand as close to the edge as I can without going over. Out on the edge you see all the kinds of things you can't see from the center."

"I'm going to give you a definite... maybe."

Honoustly your convo seems rather boring, imagine someone texting you this stuff...you'd get bored aswell and wouldn't spend any more credit and/or time to it.
I suggest giving it a 2day rest and just call her. No more texting. Call her up at a decent time like 7-8pm and don't stretch it, just say hi ask her how she's doing, make a witty/funny comment and have something planned out like some movie you'd wanted to see in a while w/e and tell her she should come. Say friday night? Then just shut up, let her think and don't give her any excuse by talking too much. If she's 'busy' just tell her to pick a day that suits her better (being busy isn't always a shit test).
If she simply refuses just tell her it's too bad, you could've had a great night together and kindly bid her farewell...she might just change her mind and call/text you back

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Optimistic?

Yeah i know i was just trying to break the ice and didn't really know what to say to her.

Yeah that is great advice, but I'm wondering, is it a bit soon? I hadn't talked to her for like 3 years and now im just phoning her up and asking her to go to the cinema with her, and she doesn't know what I'm like.

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Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small people - Muhammad Ali

Lesson # 1 never try an spark up conversation with old chicks you tried to tk to in the past; the chick just finds it random an wierd. It seems completely needy and DLV. The worlds full of other chicks. ( this is only if you haven't banged her before, which you haven't. I've banged old chicks I used to bang again after months.)

Lesson #2: unless there's obvious possitive emotion in the text messages your getting
From the chick; Dnt ask to meet up. When you get a few exclamation marks an smileys it's safe to ask to meet. ( I repeat, unless your already banging her)

And No she's not interested at all. Sorry dude. Let it go. Game some new chicks. Those old " I haven't spoke to you in a while an I have nothing better to do" text never really turn out well. Tons of guys do what you jus did to that chick all the time.

You gotta be original

3 years is a long time that's true, but not trying won't get you anywhere. Text game has like no emotion to it at all and like I said before why would she waste credits (money) on it...she has girlfriends for useless texting. The cinema was just an example, you might want to go for a 'harmless' cup of coffee since both of you can just walk away at any time and it won't be a date.

Clinging on to one girl isn't good, but I hardly think that's what you're doing anyway, however don't just give up when some meaningless text messages don't go the way you planned. See other girls of course, but I'm not encouraging you to be a quiter.
You wouldn't stop trying to score a goal just because a defender is in your way, right?

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Optimistic?