So there's this girl I've seen a bunch of times at my campus bar. She's really hot but surprisingly shy and not bitchy. She's always hanging around a bunch of dudes though unfortunately. So earlier this week I approached her table, befriended the dudes and acted disinterested. She seemed really left out and didn't really participate in the conversation. Looking back, I probably should have included her more. Not negging as I usually would have done for a girl this hot was probably a good call though. But anyways as they got up and started to leave, I went for the facebook close, cause I don't think I established enough comfort for the number close. Probably my second mistake.

I add her on facebook, only to find out that there's a very high chance that she's actually a lesbian. I'm guessing that's why I always see her with male friends but not with boyfriends. My initial reaction was something like "FUCK YEAH! THREESOME!" followed by "aw shit how am I gonna make this work..."

Shit how am I gonna make this work? I've put myself at a huge disadvantage by being a pussy and going for the easy close instead of pushing for the number. And if she really is a lesbian, can I really make her want me?

Salut!

Fuck that.

Your goal is to arrange a meeting. Doesn't matter if she has a girlfriend, boyfriend or plasma TV. Do it.

Salut!

Surielx.

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If she is a lesbian then she isn't going to be interested in a threesome lol This is always a misconception of lesbians and is usually the first though of all men. So if she is, leave it, unless you have good game to turn her straight hahaha

If she is not a lesbian then, only going from what you wrote, their may be a small problem. Did you talk to her male friends for the majority of the conversation and then ask just her for facebook details before she left?

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What makes you think she is a lesbian? Also have you given any thought that she may actually be bisexual? The only way you are going to find out is to see if she will go out with you.

i banged a lesbian once on a dare that turned into a random prank call.

swear to god.

she said she loved me afterward!



i stole her panties, tossed them on the front lawn, and blazed...

Pretty much. I did kind of talk to her. But she seemed really shy. I guess this is kind of a neg when I called her out on it and called her a quiet drunk. She responded by saying that she felt she had no place in the conversation. When she got up to leave that's when I asked for EVERYONE's facebook. I played it way too cool. That's the biggest problem with my game actually. Always too much push, never enough pull. It's definitely time to pull. I am confident that I can make things work next time I see her in person.

Only problem is setting up a meeting through facebook. I'm gonna add another cutie I met yesterday while studying. I didn't really talk to her too much though, so I felt that pushing for her number (especially in front of my cock blocking friends who don't know shit about how to wing someone) would seem too direct. But again I have the same problem with this one.

What's a non-creepy way to meet a girl through facebook?

What the hells makes you think she's a lesbian? She's holding hands with another girl? She's in a "relationship with Stacy" on FB? You are just looking to justify your potential futur failure.

... I have to say that in my almost 30 years of existence I have never seen a hot lesbian and I have quite a few friends in the gay comunity (doesn't mean they don't exist mind you). I've seen plenty of hot bi / bi-surious hot girls though.

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ok, story from my life:
when I was getting to know my first b/f he asked me why I didn't have a b/f and I was like um because I'm somewhat more into girls actually

I could so see his heart drop

he was real nervous and tried to play fun and cocky and asked me: so if one the boys hanging out here at the store asked you if you wanna go and have a coke with him, then what would you say? (note: seriously, have a coke with him? that would be a lame opener wouldn't it?)

I said: well, if one of the boys here would ask me that, I'd say, no sorry I'm into girls

(notice the difference? he didn't!)

he wasn't asking if I'd go out with him, but one of the boys hanging out there in general (which to me didn't include him ...) and was asking about how I react in general to a pick up line from some random guy!


bottom line:

If she's a lesbian or for some other reason never in the world would she date you, she'll be clear.

If there's any uncertainty, then there are opportunities!