I've known this girl for years, shes roughly a hb7ish, maybe a little higher. Though i've only been really close with her for the past few months. i kind of used to help her with problems and be their for her just as a friend, never thought of ever building sexual tension or anything between us.

In the last week or so ive done a lot of kino on her and seriously made her laugh, shes giving me minor iois (she shows shes interested in being more than a friend slightly compared to how she used to act) but i dunno how to make it even more sexual without creeping her out because of me being close with her . I feel she might not want to meet me or w.e because she might feel it being a little weird or something. How can i bring up the sexual tension between us without trying to hard and make her like me a lot?

p.s i go to college with her, yet am not in her lessons.

hey bro, i'm in a pretty similar situation..... What I did was tell my best friend I liked her, which was dumb. She said she kinda did but didn't want to commit, but anyways back to how i handled it.

I constantly negged her, increased kino a lot (do it consistently, a week isn't a lot of time), and most importantly, appeared to be 100% detached from the situation. I made tons of sexual enuendos, and had her see me dance with girls at clubs who are hotter than she is- this improved my social value in her eyes and made her jealous. I basically made her go through an emotional roller coaster. One moment i'd be tutoring her in psych, making sure she understood everything. The next moment i'd be making her feel like shit, and the next moment i'd be consoling her. During all of our encounters, she didn't know what to expect from me- i was only consistent with kino and negs.

The above worked like a charm for me- we hung out the other night, and i read one of her texts with her friends saying she wants to hook up with me. She thought we were gonna get caught with alcohol, so she'd get really upset, i'd console her, give tons of indicators i would go into hookup with her, and then just tease the shit out of her. Long story short, my friend she spoke to said it confused the shit out of her and that she wants me even more now. Sexual tension is at an all time high.



Really hope it works out for you man. I can't stress enough that you seem (and actually are) detached from the situation. Have her see you be with hot girls- let her know you have other options and show her that she has tow in you over.

Good luck!

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What will creep her out is if you keep being her little girlfriend and then make some huge grand sexual c'mon out of the blue. Be respectfull and courtious but do not be afraid to show her that you are a sexual being and not some little gay boy who is her girl friend with his dick taped up under his crack.

Flirt with her. Make some sexual innuendos. Compliment her in a sexual way. Increase the kino.

here is a direct quote from 60 Years of Challenge - "RISK CREEPY"

You are an adult male and adult males pursue adult relationships with adult females. Don't be afraid to do that, it is your God-given right to pursue a fullfilling relationship with a female. Man-up and pursue that which you desire.

She may not wish to go to the next level, that is her God-given right. If she does not wish to have a romantic/sexual relationship with her then find someone who does.

This can go one of 2 ways- she can either move forward into a romantic/sexual relationship with you. Or she can say, "let's just be friends."

If she friendzones you, you can either have her be an actual friend and have her help you get more attractive to women (ie help you pick out clothes, hairstyles, grooming tricks etc) and set you up with some of her hottie friends (have her be your wingwoman) or walk away from her look for someone else.

If you keep being her girlfriend without getting anything in return then you are just one of her satelites and the time she is taking from you is the time you could be using to find someone who will provide that which you desire.

Either she is helping you move forward towards scoring whether with her or with someone else or she is cockblocking you. It's one or the other.

Thanks for the replies, going to take both into consideration, helped me a lot

OK, now im stuck.

I went back to school and just carried on with what i was doing, building on the attraction by kinoing and making her laugh, went down a treat.

But now i have a problem, i went to a party on saturday just gone and danced with everyone, i knew a lot of people, but she knew as many people as i did. All night i noticed she was watching me, and if i was dancing with others she'd attempt to join in with the group i was dancing with. At the end of the night i was sitting down and she came and sat next to me, i purposely acted pissed off with her because when i called her over at one point to dance, she went off with her ex, i think this was just as friend though (he now has a new girlfriend). I sat there for a while with a small amount of silence, then her bestfriend come in and ask whats up, i just said nothing. Her bestfriend then whispers in my ear telling me she really liked me, i just acted like i took no noticed. Later that night i got in the taxi with her and her friends, took her home and kissed her, she walked off really happy with a big smile on her face.

The next day i was texting her, everything seemed alright and that she was still into me, if not then a lot more

At school yesterday i never spoke to her, i was just mixing wiht my usual friends at school, yet she constantly watched me. But at the end of the day she was texting me and tried to act pissed off with me yet i dont understand why, she started texting me when her friend was asking if anything went on between us 2. Today it was little the same yet hardly any communication.

I really dont understand what im missing for her to suddenly stop talking to me, yet shes always got her eye on me. What have i got to do to keep the attraction?