so this chick i met at college few months back i been texting abit, but we never really orgaised nothing (had something else). but last week i asked if she wanted to go to a party some girl i know was having. said she already going to another thing but she will try and come over check it out

anyway the party i was at was kinda shit so when she text me asking what the address was for the party i told her it but said "its abit dead at the moment tho, we might go somewhere else, not sure" because i didnt want her to think these kind of parties are the usual thing for me and a shit party is all i have to do at night lol. so she said "oh ok, ill just stay here for now then".

^^How should i have gone about that instead? I realise now she was clearly going to come to the party, but at the same time i dont want to DLV myself by getting her to come to a shit party

I would of had her come over to the party then bounced her to go eat as soon as she got there, and gone on an instant date... or saying let's go eat, but I need to stop by my house first to change into cleaner clothes (and invite her along) then if she's comfortable with it and giving enough Interest, never leaving the house.

hmm yeh that would been better, thanks

whatnext, any suggestions?