Hey everyone!

Im brand new to the game but I've been doing a lot of reading and this stuff really makes a lot of sense to me. I just finished reading The Mystery Method and I think it was really beneficial to me for many reasons and I've really furthered my understanding of the female brain. Ive also really studied Gambler and Mystery extensively.

So heres my scenario.

Me: 18, Music Producer, Live in Hollywood, Very Open, Goofy, Good Looking Mod/Rocker Guy, Starting to be very successful in my career, know ALOT of people, making things happen.

Her: 21, Fashion Model, Pursuing a career as a Pop Artist, Broke, Quirky, Fun, Beautiful, Open, Unique.


We've been talking for almost 3 months on Facebook and we finally met and walked around Universal City walk together a few days ago. We hit it off immediately, I felt a connection and she let me walk with my arm around her almost the entire night. A moment came where she looked at me and said "Eddie ya know, your a really cool guy", Did the goofy smile, giggled, then looked down and mumbled "but your so young"...jokingly I believe.

We took the bus together to go get food and sat in the back and did a lot of taking and catching up, learning more about each other, etc. She asked me about previous relationships, etc, etc. I stopped talking for a bit and she kept continuing the conversation many times with different topics of conversation, with "sooooo" etc. I could tell she was interested. She also eventually looked at me and said "So do you put your arm around every girl you meet like this?"...I sorta got awkward and dodged the question and wasn't sure what she was really getting at.

All in all, it was a great night. I follow her up with a "Had a great time with you tonight" text and she said the same + "Our next get together will be even better. I texted her again yesterday and said "You should come see a movie with me this week" she replied "Yes!" I replied with a "Cool I cant wait to see you and she said "Yay!!"

This is where my story currently stands. Where do I proceed? Is she into me? I have such little experience with girls I just feel lost. I get nervous to make a move, etc. I really like this girl and would love to take this past friends/music stuff together.

ALL help greatly appreciated!

Thanks.
Eddie

Hey eddie.
The light is green. Go.
From your post, it sounds like she's given you soooo many IOIs that it's pretty much set in stone. She's into you.

Age is not an important factor my friend.

I suggest going for the kiss close on your next date. Just have fun on the date and when you feel it's a good time, kiss her (90/10). She's already confortable with you putting your hand around her. This tells her that you're into her, so she must like you being into, otherwise, she would have rejected your arm. If you don't get the chance to kiss during the date, then do it after you walk her to her door. (Trust me, this works. ) That's how you bring your relationship up a notch.

Btw, ever heard of a guy called Sasha? Just type in "sasha PUA" into google. He's also a PUA, but uses a very different style from Mystery and Gambler. His is more geared towards having fun and daygame. Personally, I believe Mystery and Gambler's methods are for nightgame and gaming many girls. It's not for a relationship, which it sounds like you want an actual relationship with this girl?

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Forget going for the kiss, go for the lay. She's clearly very interested, and she knows you are too. Try and get her round to your house to watch a DVD rather than going to the cinema, then you can fuck her afterwards. If you don't make a move soon you will lose her, you'll need to at the very least kiss her on the next date. I know it can be scary making the first move, but you have to do it.

Hey everyone,

The biggest thing for me is figuring out if she seems me as more than a friend. She also wants me to work on music with her so I know thats part of her interest but is there any probing I can do to figure out if shes interested in a relationship?

Just watch his vids, somehow I dont like this guy, Sasha seems like an amateur to me, he didn't escalate, he didn't disarm target's friend, and he TALKED way too much. In the vids, there were times the girls give him a rolled eye saying "omg when will he stop talking", yet he failed to get those hints. I agree he's having fun but it almost looks like he's trying so hard to qualify himself in front of the girls. He appears more of an entertainer than an alpha male or pickup artist.
I'm not criticizing your taste but Eddie should try out David naturalist method.

Mate, don't overanalyse it, that will fuck you up. Just assume she's attracted in you as more than just a friend (by the sounds of it she wants your pants down ). Stop trying to figure out what shes thinking because you'll never know, you're not a mind reader. The only probing you can do is to escalate...

I agree with what you said about Sasha. I suggest 60 years of challenge, especially since the issue here seems to be sexual escalation which is 60's main thing...

Well, I would've suggested a lay close, BUT the way you were talking about her makes it seem like a bad idea to go for the lay close. It seems like you're really nervous around her. If so, then escalating that fast would be devastating. A kiss close is a step up, yet it should not be much harder than putting your arm around her for the first time. You should be comfortable with the girl before you try to go for the lay. Slowly building from arm hold to kiss to more kissing and then eventually to lay will make you more comfortable and most likely more successful. Imagine how it will be if you're laying and nervous as hell. Not good.
That's true, but I like his method because it works for me. I know the video you're talking about and I too think that the set didn't go too well, but I've experimented with his method and it has been one of my favorites. Read his material (there's not really a lot) and try it a few times. If it doesn't work, then go find another. This works for me, and that's why I'm recommending him. If you haven't tried it, you'll never really know if something works.

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