| Ok, so theres this girl in my university, had the awkward eye contact thing going on for 2 days, and then i saw her sitting by herself, so i went up to her, and her work was spread out all over the place in the computer room. so i was like "hey is anyone sitting here" to which she smiled and replied no. Then i logged on to the computer and was like so whats your name.. broke the ice and we were talking for about 10-15 mins, a general conversation found out about her, was pretty ok normal paced. Then, i was hoping to see her around as, when i saw her i was going to walk her home from the library. As i often saw her very late and i was pretty sure she lived somewhere close by. But 2 days went and i didnt see her, this was aparently because she was on the ground floor computer rooms and no1 goes there. then i saw her again, in a computer room on the third floor where we always used to see each other, she was sitting there on a round computer table, surrounded by people, and chatting to people around her. How was i ment to go up to her and try and get her number. With bare randoms listening, and boys that she knew sitting next to her. So i pussyied out, EXTREMELY frustration as i have no real lack of confidence to approach a girl by herself. I saw her again the next day, she gave a smile (this time i didnt know if it was bad or good) but again, she was always surrounded by people. Some stupid guy that she was bare talking to and having jokes with. I dont know if i could have just intercepted the conversation and asked for her number. I couldnt get her alone, as i am sure she left with people she was with. I would have definately approached her if she was alone and asked for it. So the ultimate question is. How do you approach a girl that is with diffrent guys, and surrounded by diffrent people, that hear ur game when ur trying to her number. Because your doing it in front of everyone and people she knows!!!....Help.
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