YES I apologise for acting like a wuss and asking a one-itis/type of question which everybody(including myself) is sick of.

Long story short.

Met this girl. Got number. After texting a little bit(but with a large time-gaps) Went for a date. She had a long-term/long-distance relationship, where the guy is a total AFC(and she was definitely unhappy with it.) She is 5 years older. She is Chinese. Went on a date 1-went pretty good, but little kino. Date 2 a little more kino, but I tried to K-close, she turned her face, awkward moment.(This is when I realised to trust myself and be in the moment rather than think of deadlines for closes posted by some gurus here) Did one more AFC move(unexpected kiss on the cheek). Sent an AFC message. She replied once, but never again, although I tried to reinitiate contact for some time.) I haven't contacted her for a while, and I knew that this is just one-itis, but this is REALLY STRONG ONE-ITIS.

Things getting worse. Today I saw a girl in the bus who looked like her, and for a moment I thought it was her and I couldn't move before I saw it wasn't her. When I'm in Starbucks(where we first met, I automatically look around to see that just maybe she is there this one time. I woke up today with my heartbeat going crazy because, I saw her in my dreams(this isn't the first time). My game overall improved greatly since I last saw her. If I was the one to comment I'd say "get over it". I tried. I can't. By can't I mean, I can't forget her, and I know that all these fantasies in my head just put her on the throne which only makes things worse.

This happens to the best of us, and I'm definitely not the best. Maybe if I actually get to know her better, I'll see all the imperfections and will lose interest. If anybody knows how can I get one last shot. I'd greatly appreciate.

But you're asking for the wrong thing. You're asking for permission to indulge your weakness, when actually you need to be told to summon the strength to move along. Why should we help you make yourself weak? You can strengthen yourself by trying to understand why you're so fixated on her. What does she represent to you? What is so important about her? Gotta be something other than "she's hot." There's lotsa hot girls out there. "She's hot and I don't think I can get anything else." Well, you can. Some other reason? Some magical symbolism of her personality, her value in your life? Figure out where it comes from. Then maybe you do want those things, maybe they are desirable things, but they don't have to come from her.

It isn't just about looks. She has a great personality, and we have some common interests. I gamed other girls, but it really doesn't feel as when I was with her.

UPDATE: Reinitiating contact is not a problem anymore. I'll just bump into her.

Now my new AFC question is: What should I do if I bump into her?

I'm just thinking about playing it off cool, something like "long time no see. ask her about study etc(neutral topics) end with nice to meet you. Just to get it out of the way. I don't really think that setting up a date right away would be a good idea. Maybe I'll just take the silence out of the way, start light fb messaging.
Then on February 12th I think, there is a place to go to, and we'll see how it goes.

Any opinions?Any suggestions. I somehow can't come up with anything better than this.

Here's radical: how about owning your sexuality with her? That's what you blew last time; fix your mistake this time. See, I think you're psychologically better of if this particular chick is just gone, out of your life. So why not treat it as though it really doesn't matter? Sexually you were a wimp last time. This time be bold. Enough of putting up with turned cheek bullshit, don't let women play you like that.

Owning my sexuality??? any details. The only time I asked this question from a PUA i got an answer"feel your balls" WTF? Can anybody explain?

Well you know what kino is, and you managed to do a little of it before. Not enough. Do a lot more. If for some reason it comes to kissing time again, be confident, go for it. Don't do it apologetically or tentatively. YOU WANT TO FUCK HER. No woman should be making you feel apologetic for that. If she doesn't like sex or doesn't like you that's her problem. If she denies your advance, don't AFC about it. Be mildly offended and cut her off. "What am I, chopped liver?" Don't talk to her again until she's figured out what she actually wants to do with you. Send her packing. Ducking sex is bullshit, it's like grade school. Own your feelings about sex and be proud of them. A woman making you feel guilty, awkward, or wrong about wanting sex from her is totally AFC.

basically being unapologetic about sex-i think i got you.