| Well, being that I don't usually answer questions that often anymore, this one caught my eye because it happened to everyone. I also don't have enough credibility to tell YOU what to do, but rather what I would do in your situation. After all, I'm still learning. I would say, though, instead of just escaping, take school25's advice. Don't be a pussy. But instead of addressing the shallow problem, go back to the very BASE of how it began. Most likely you were embarrassed because you felt completely overpowered and undervalued that it was humiliating to be rejected. This happened to me, it happened to everybody. I'm going to sound like a natural game promotor right now, but I seriously think you should just begin to work on your character. Develop character, confidence, and an identity: judging from your question I assume you're a newbie, so read up and introduce yourself to natural game. You don't have to buy books or sign up for programs. In fact, please don't.
What you just need to learn is to detach value from this situation. She blows you off, you don't care. In my personal opinion and experience, I've noticed girls reject you in a dramatic way (the bitchy ones do) in order to express dominance. After all, why would they do it in such a humiliating way if they could make it as nicely and pain-free as possible? So learn to TAKE CONTROL OF THE SITUATION. Easier said than done, of course. Learn to make it so that even if she rejects you, she will feel humiliated for making a big deal out of it.
Think about it this way. You go for a girl and end up being too sexual... the girl makes it awkward, or she just makes a big fuss. Tell her to calm down, its a joke, etc. Again, just pull value away from the conversation as if her reaction, either way, results in the same reaction from you. That way, her reaction has nothing to do with showing she's better than you; rather her own opinion, take it or leave it.
Don't worry about this girl, talk around her as if nothing happened. Say hi, stay calm, and don't get nervous when you see her. Things will be okay. Or at least, in my life experience, they were.
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