Let me start off with this girl is my dream girl... lol.

Okay when I first moved to the town that I live in now, I had added her on myspace when I was probably 15 or early 16 (now 20.) She approached me and said hi in public a few days later when she saw me at a concert. I was too shy to really say anything too her, she's literally the most beautiful girl I've ever met in my life.

Fast forward, I was about 18 or late 17, and I had added her on myspace again. I started talking to her even though I had a girlfriend (didn't mean that much too me :/) and we had a bite to eat and hung out. She was really good friends with my girlfriends best friend.. lol. The more and more I talked to her the more I started liking her, so I left my girlfriend.. When I told her what and why I did she told what was going on because she felt bad. The worst part is, she was extremely flirty, was into me hard, we had a lot in common, she even had my picture as her laptops background lol. To make matters worse I was stupid and started dating my ex again, and then she wouldn't have anything to do with me (we had a very bad relationship lol.) So the next time we broke up I went out on a limb, I went to build a bear made her a bear and called her asking her if I could bring it too her. Well I got shot down hard, as her and her boyfriend had gotten back together.


So now I guess my question is, is there ANYTHING I could possibly do to win her over or anything? Her and that same boyfriend have been together around 4 years off and on. Couldn't leave that out. Every time I see her at the mall if I'm walking with another girl by where she works I watch her watch me leave.. If I see her walking in the mall I usually wink when she waves and she'll start smiling really big.

Like I said this girl is my absolute dream girl, can anyone help?

Thanks!

Do you know what you did wrong? You can't dump a girl just because another girl comes along. Do you think girls will want to date you if they know you're that fickle? Getting back with your ex was incredibly insecure, too. Anyway, you're just a kid so maybe all that shit doesn't really matter. You can maybe use this to your advantage. She's in the same situation as you, dating a guy that she sometimes likes, sometimes doesn't, breaking up and getting back together. You know what it's like and you're SICK of it. You want something you can be sure of and maybe she feels that way, too. That's all I got.

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31 and still figuring it out.