Getting straight to the point there are 2 different scenarios here both on the same night. I planned a night out with just my mates and one of them invited his lady friends. One of them i was digging really badly and put on my cocky funny attitude when i met her in a quiet bar. After the introduction i asked an opening question which was -
Tedwood - "So who has worked in _____ "
Girl - "Me"
Tedwood - "... the longest, wheey gotcha"
She then tried to insult me or test my reaction by saying i talk really slowly.
Later my mate started poring salt into this cup which she wasn't impressed with, so i did the same and she grabbed my wrist and told me to stop acting immature, so i just laughed it off saying she slapped my wrist.

5 mins later i asked her what her name was and she mumbled and gave me her surname name .. which was obviously wrong and the group started laughing. So i said i was going to call her that for the rest of the night.

She asked my name later on and said she's going to give me a silly nickname .. which she did and then playfully punched me. (Guessing that's a IOI)

Problemo 1, my friend is quite the LAD (player) and he was the one who invited her. He has a girlfriend and specifically told me not to tell them he has a girlfriend :/. Later i got off to go to a different club because the one we were in was dead and left him with the 2 girls (who were touching him on the chest because he told them to). When i rang in the morning i could hear feminine voices in the background but when quizzed later he says he got bored and left them in the club. Did it look like the girl was into me and should i have stayed in the boring nightclub just to try it on in front of my mate?

When i got into the nightclub with another mate we got introduced by one of my girl mates to her friends and instantly got shit tested
Her - "Can you hold my drink?"
Tedwood - "No"
Her - * Shrugs and gives it to her mate.
I did smile when i said no but is there a better way to approach this. The funny thing is this girl then went on and started kissing loads of other lads when she was in our group. In a way i felt she was trying to prove to me she was desirable and that i should have liked her (If she thought i didn't)
Two questions on this situation in the club,
1- Since she asked ME out of 5 people in the group to hold her drink was she trying to shit test me because she liked me and did i do the right thing declining?
2 - Was she trying to make me jealous by kissing the other lads because she didn't seem open to getting into me.

I would greatly appreciate peoples expertise on both matters since its been my first time gaming at night for a month due to the Christmas break.
Anything i could have done better that night?

i would've said...

"I'll hold your drink, if you hold my balls. Deal?"

1st scenario the chick was into you but as you mention your mate brought her. If he gave you the green light to take her he would of already. Kudo's for you not trying to pursue the chick anymore that's what set most guys apart. If the fact that your buddy would have given the girl to you, i say you would of landed it no doubt.

2nd scenario that was a shit test and the small little hoops that most girls will try. I would of done the same thing. The fact that she was going around making out with all these guys will show it to, she craves for attention and wants to be in control. I dont think she was trying to make you jealous, she was trying to make the whole club jealous like " look at me!" If she was a HB9 or HB10 might be worth going for other then that. Let the girl go plenty of hotter girls out there.

anything you could of done better? well you should of establish with you and your mate if it was ok if you pick up his chick. Did you even ask? I say you did pretty well.

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I agree with NSR...

In the first scenario, if she wasn't into you, she would not have given you any more attention than really necessary...that being the case...yes, out of courtesy...ask for the green light.

Second scenario, do you really want this girl kissing up on how many guys at the club? No thanks, I want a girl with some integrity and value, most definitely shit test and good for you, you didn't bite but had you, you would have gotten some "dirty" sugar from her.

Regardless, you did fine but it didn't work in your favor on this one, who cares...how would you felt after she had kissed you for holding her drink and then see her kissing the rest of the club...Not sure about you but I would be looking for some bleach to put in my mouth!

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.

Owch no didn't really think of asking him for a green light with his friend. I knew she was definitely into me but i didn't want to ruin my friendship by making a move. Next time im going to ask, never really thought about coming to an agreement.
Also in the same night i was trying to get through the crowd and this girl stepped aside and let me through while smiling. I smiled back and kinda winked. She probably liked me as well, could i have forgot about getting through the crowd and just started flirting with her while kino ploughing?